i have a boyfriend and he's not a virgin he also told me he eats pus sy and now everytime i kiss him it's grossin me out to think his lips was on somebodies elses pu ssy i also know he want some from me even though he won't admit it but i'm really not ready even though i think about it all the time what should i do !!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-18 11:18:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he is your boyfriend and if he really cares about you he wouldn't pressure you into doing anything you are not ready for. but just letting you know you should not ever worry about the fact that his tongue and lips were on someone else's pussy because he does eat and drink and shower right? so if he does it all gets washed away and stuff. so you really have no reason to worry about that.but if you are not ready for sex or anything before that. you should tell him how you feel and like i said if he loves you he will understand and wait. me and my boyfriend are 3 years apart and we have talked about it, but i told him i'm not ready [we have been together for 5 months almost] and he says he understands. after all...everybody waits for a reason! and virginity is something you can NEVER get back. so don't waist it on someone you don't think will wait for you or who you won't be together with for a while. if your boyfriend really loves you he will understand and will not pressure you into doing something you are not ready for. so don't make a mistake. but also people do get caught up with things..so make sure either you or him have a condom with you at all times. but also be open with your parents about it...so you don't have to rush through sex. i mean it is supposed to be special for everyone. and losing your virginity on a couch or in a car is not the idea of perfect. :] GOOD LUCK! p.s you can't rape the willing!
2006-11-18 11:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by her <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 06:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are right to be disgusted. He could be giving you Herpes, warts, chlymydia, and other STD's...That is disgusting. You need to dump this boy and move on with your life..
It sound like you have never had sex before, so you should remain keep your virginty. If he performs oral sex on you, he could give you genital herpes--and you would have that for the rest of your life.
Call 1-800-342-AIDS, thats the National AIDS and STD hotline. a real councelor will tell you how you could get sexually transmitted diseases from oral sex.
Also, look at the photos below of herpes and other STD's
2006-11-18 11:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by Victory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not ready and he is pressuring you then i would break up with him. And never believe a guy who says they don't want sex, they always do!! Just don't htink about what he has done in the past, when you get to that point it is easier to understand where us non-virgins are coming from.....but just don't let him pressure or bug you about it!!
2006-11-18 11:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already know what is right for you. Careful what you do so you don't wish that you hadn't later. You can find better than this guy.
2006-11-18 11:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by ygsdvrtj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have bobbed on a bunch of schlongs, that would equal out the playing field.
2006-11-18 11:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by Poker Face 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a cat you meanie.
2006-11-18 11:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by kevin_4508 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep a condom. just in case (make shure you make him have an HIV test) actually i would never go out with him!!!
2006-11-18 11:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you he will understand and he will wait for when your ready.
2006-11-18 11:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by shortyz415 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should try eating p ussy its good and you'll know why he likes it so much!!
2006-11-18 11:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by madmikeh1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋