my boyfriend and i have recently started sex-play. we've had one session where i orgasmed but he didn't. i gave him a hand-job and he said that he came close and lost it a couple of times. eventually we had to stop. i feel like i failed him especially since i did; but he says to stop worrying because he's always had a hard time, even when he masturbates. could there be something physical with him... he's 19 and a virgin by the way.
2006-11-18 11:04:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wat worries me is that he told me he has orgasmed only 2 times when he masturbates. as in in his entire life and most of the time he cums from dreams.
2006-11-18 11:11:44 · update #1
No, if he is a virgin he is probably nervous and feeling guilty. If he is feeling guilty he may not be able to get off.
2006-11-18 11:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each guy is different in that manner. Some have to do the driving to get where they are going, and others can be driven. I once bet a New York Hooker, that she could not get me off with a B* J*, I won 500, because I have to drive. Some guys are just like that. Just enjoy the time you are having with each other and do not worry about the outcome as much. Fun is fun and when it is time to be over, it is time. Have fun!!!!!
2006-11-18 19:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No. It could be nothing and like he says it just takes him longer to achieve an orgasm. But if he is concerned about it the best thing to do is ask his doctor about it . Better to be safe about things like this. If it is somthing he can get it taken care of. and if it is nothing than at least he will know.
2006-11-18 19:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by klpn306 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well has he ever been in any fights where someone kicked him in the nuts. Because if they did he need to see a doctor to amke sure he's all right. I wouldn't wait if I was you. Or maybe he might have some kind of disorder. ALl you ahve to do is go to the dr. and tell him what's happening, and no telling he could get fixed.
2006-11-18 19:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So by your statement it is OK to have oral, anal sex and you are still a virgin, wow . As for your question that is quite normal, he was right
2006-11-18 19:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, something isn't right. Is he gay?
2006-11-18 19:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋