We are in high school. Long story short: She likes me, starts to flirt. After awhile, I like her too, but do nothing. This week, asked her to go to the movies with me. She accepted. Thigs were fine for a few days. Last couple of days, she seemed cold and uninterested. Especially earlier today. I told her to call me by three. She calls at 3:05 and says she can't make it. Her reason? Her friend pissed her off and she's too mad and tired to go. Does that sound like total bullsh*t to you? It does to me.....but I don't get it! I've already asked this, and everyone says maybe something happened. If that's true, why didn't she just tell me that? And she was acting the same with some of her friends, and looked like she was having fun around them....plus, what should I do when I see her Monday?? Please answer that last part, it's IMPORTANT!
What if I just say, "It was a good movie," and then see what she has to say? Any better ideas?
2006-11-18 10:47:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say, "Is there anything wrong? B/C it was weird how u canceled on me. Wait for her response, depending on what she says then u say---- "The movie was pretty good!" You all should be in a ongoing conversation, hope it works out for u!
2006-11-18 10:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by HIGHLY FAVORED 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO. Don't do that.
it'll just piss her off, or make her feel guilty.
Gently approach her and ask her if anything's wrong and maybe you can talk about it.
ALWAYS be gentle and emotional around girls.
Never get angry or do anything that would provoke them, especially when they're angry or upset.
And her friend probably DID piss her off. It's not a load of bullshit. if she was angry with you for doing something, she would drop hints.
Don't be so uptight. Girls are like that.
The reason she's acting so normal around her friends has a little word: "facade." it's called putting on a mask so on the outside you look like everything's fine, when inside, you're a ball of angry, mixed emotions.
Girls are complex, beautiful creatures. Learn from us. ;D
2006-11-18 18:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by Indome 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Monday go up to her and ask her if everything is ok because you are concerned. People sometimes don't know how to express things well to others so they become scared and would rather bottle it up and run from the issue altogether in hope that it will go away on its own . Ask her again If she is ok what made her so mad the other day? do you want to talk about it? is everything ok now? I'm asking because I'm concerned about you. See how she reacts. If your gut is telling you she still seems uninterested then she probably is . Please don't waste your energy as to why she did this to you she isn't worth it.
2006-11-18 19:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything to her. It does sound like a bunch of BS. She sounds like a real unpleasant person anyways who just likes to play games. REAL women don't play games; we're up front and honest. To heck with her, she's isn't worth your time or worries.
Remember that there are tons of women who'd love to go out to the movies with a good guy. If she can't see how great you are, then dump her. She doesn't deserve you.
If you'd like to shove it to her, than go flirt with her friends and totally ignore her. It'll piss her off real good and she'll see that it didn't even bother you.
Have fun :)
2006-11-18 18:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by latina_soldier 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with the other people that said maybe something happened... she isnt just going to tell anyone whats wrong with her. Plus... if my friend pissed me off I would say the same thing 2.
2006-11-18 18:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are girls. We're a little hard to figure out. Just accept it. Give her a little space and she might come around. Don't let yourself get moody and angry, it will just push her away. If you don't like her attitude or don't want to wait for her to come around, look elsewhere. Blunt, but that's the way it is. You're teenagers, after all.
2006-11-18 18:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by leasanders 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u probably accidentally said something 2 pi$$ her off and she think that u dont really care about her feelings!!!on mon. just ask her whts really wrong with her and say that she can trust u if shes a good girlfriend shell tell u but if she doesnt well wht u do about her is ur decision.
2006-11-18 19:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no she might be on her period with a mood swing lol let her kiss your a** just be a man and ask her why is she acting all funny style towards you or kill her with silence act like you dont notice her as a women we tend to play too many games that you men cant understand ask her was your breath hot? lol
just be you & be cool dont approach her gl
2006-11-18 18:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either something happened, or she's lost interest in you and she's trying to avoid you b.c she doesnt have the courage to tell you that she doesn't like you anymore. Stop wondering and ask her. What so you have to loose?
2006-11-18 18:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes a girl she has more hormones than you so she will get emotional easily and she likes you so she doesnt want to be angry around you because you might stop liking her.
dont say it was a good movie because she might get angry.
hope i helped.
2006-11-18 18:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by kelcihrn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋