Well me and my baby father have been together for a while and he just comes out and tells me he wants to be gay what should i do ?
2006-11-18 10:45:08 · 10 answers · asked by sweet pea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now mind you ...you brought this to us....so I am bringing it to you straight...........HE HAS ALWAYS LIKED MEN....you don't decide to become gay overnight.......get tested asap!
2006-11-18 10:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Renee F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that man says he is gay, there is nothing you can do but let him go. At this time he is telling you that you are not what he wants anymore, and as hurtful as I know that is, you can't hold on to a man that doesn't want to be there. he can still be a good father to your child, and you should let him. This is not going to be an easy situation to deal with initially,but you can get through it. Just do what you feel is best for you and your son and hopefully you can make some sense of it and things will get better. Good luck to you.
2006-11-18 10:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by klpn306 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick his behind to the curb. tell him to go and be gay if that is what he wants. He is hurting you and your child and you dont need that! Make sure you keep getting tested for HIV and STD's. Odds are he has already been having sex with men. Steer clear of him and keep your kids away from this guy. If he wants to rock the boat, get a lawyer go to court and tell them he is engaging in risky homosexual activity. Good luck.
2006-11-18 10:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by confused346 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told you he wants to be gay then he probably has already done it. Either accept it and make the best of it or start looking for a new man, I'd start looking for a new man.
2006-11-18 10:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by LuvFlwr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel shocked first, but then i ask him to get out of my life and childs for I need a man not a make believe
2006-11-18 10:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by ckayisme61 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be glad he told you. End the relationship and let him be with men. Make sure you have an AIDS test done and be checked for STD's.
2006-11-18 10:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him go nothing's going to make him come back if he likes guys then just let him go the thing is about your kid you guys really would have to work something out about that and set some rules and things
2006-11-18 10:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by hot_kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him be gay... and away from you ( in that sense ever again ) you don't need that in your life nor does your child.. let him go and let him be as long as he is willing to be there for the child but you gotta let him go and move on.... don't let him slack on his daddy duties though
2006-11-18 10:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know. Its a little late for him to let u know this though.
2006-11-18 10:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with him more.
2006-11-18 10:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋