Wooing....?

Question

How do you completely woo a man on a first date?

Answer 1

Hi Mia,

ALL MEN, unless he is very akward and shy, will be bowled over with a lovely woman smiling, flirting and laughing at his jokes - but, not all men will want to make anything more of this, if he is free and single to pick and choose any woman he wants to - it takes more than just manners.

So, my advice is this, you need to stand out in a way that he can see you as being unique from the rest. Truth: you can dress to kill, but this isn't what bowls men over.

What bowls a man over is what the woman says to him as it is the personality and not just the looks that count. If you ask him something like, "so, what kind of woman do you like?" will make you stand out a mile from the rest and he will like the fact that you take seriously what he is looking for in a woman.

He won't find this a strange question so don't worry about this - it will make him think of you as someone who thinks deeply about things and somone he will have a lot of respect for because he will see that you care about what he thinks. This is what a man wants most in a woman, is someone who can get to know him and what he thinks.

This is what is going to make you STAND out from the rest and you will make a very positive impression on him if you say this. I know it sounds kind of strange, but it isn't at all and what most men want, is for a woman to know what he does and doesn't like in another woman - this will get you his attention and he will think something for you if you show that you have the courage to ask him something others wouldn't.

If you are far too shy to do this, then I think just being yourself anyway, will do just as good, as men do like women to be natural and not boastful about themself. Ask him lots of questions about him and make him feel as if it is all about him. This will certainly increase your chances of making the right impression on him.

I wish you luck and hope that you hit it off well with him, but I do give sound advice and any one of the two options will work.

Answer 2

Depends on the man... Since it's a FIRST date, probably the best advice I could give you is to ask questions you REALLY want answers to, listen well to what he says and how he says it, and THEN determine if you really want to woo him completely... Once you get past the smiley face we all wear, you may change your mind...

Answer 3

depends on the man

Answer 4

Depends on the man.

smile, laugh at his jokes, flirt... see how he responds.

Answer 5

cleavage and a smile

Answer 6

just do something