help with a boy....long story, please read!?

Question

I met this guy in august on a night out and we got on really wlel....my best friend happened to get together with his best friend also so everything worked out well for us. We text a lot and so far have went out about 6 times (as a gorup, with me, my friend and him and his). Its been really good and Ive enjoyed his company a lot, it hasnt been anything serious though, my friend and his friend were a bit more seirous though and we basically going out. Now my friend and the otehr guy have fallen out and dont talk anymore and its as if I have to break it off with my man too, this has really bothered me as I have really started to like him. Although hes not shy, hes not very forward either but neitehr am I. He textd me & said that me and him have to get a night out by ourseleves but has yet to arrange anything. I really really like this guy & I dont see why I should give him up for my mate (she says its what I should do as a friend because me continuing to see him means she has to see her

ex...I think he likes me and i think hes looking a girlfriend too..I just dont know what my next move should be!!

Answer 1

If you want to date him, then you should
I am sure your friend would not want you to be unhappy so she could be happy
any true friend would want you to be happy!

Answer 2

First of all just think what you just said about your friend. You know your won't be going out with her anyway, and if she's a true friend it won't matter. The only reason she's doing that is because she mad that they dumped her butt and doesn't want you to be happy. Sounds like a control freak to me. Probably also thinks the world should revolve aroun her, too. I would text the guy and tell him to meet you at a park or somewhere you'll can be alone and enjoy each others company. If your friend dowsn't speak wioth you anymore she wasn't a good friend cause all she thinks is do as I say or else. I would go out and enjoy yourself with him and don't worry about the friend

Answer 3

Of course you should carry on seeing this guy if you like him. You can see your friend when you are not seeing the guy. If she was a real friend and new that you really liked him she would encourage you to arrange a date, if she falls out with you other this then maybe you should reconsider her as a friend. At some point she will meet another guy and will she want you tagging along all the time????? I think not. Hope it goes well

Answer 4

Never mind listening to your friend, you do what you think is right for you.If the shoe was on the other foot do you think that your friend would consider you.
It seems obvious that this boy fancys you and enjoys your company so next time he texts you put more enthusiasm into your reply, because he may think that you dont want to know him because of your friend.
Go out with him and enjoy yourself and let nature take its course. Let us know what happens.

Answer 5

Your boyfriend has the right idea. Go out by yourselves and see what happens. And your girl friend is just angry and hurt - she will come round to the idea eventually. Avoid any confrontation with her for now but don't promise to give up your guy for her - on the other hand, don't flaunt it in her face either. Good luck.

Answer 6

If your friend wants you to break up with a guy just because she broke up with a friend of this guy she is either insane or not your real friend. Either way don't give up on the guy and get the girl off your back.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

sounds like she cares about you, but if she does, she might take this care bear attitude to far and leave you lonely 4eva you two need to talk and quick, in the meantime hook up with this guy again with some other friends and ask your friend where she coming from with that.

Answer 9

One guy i know tried chatting to a girl but she didn't want to know, he tried chatting to her best friend and she said yes. Theyr'e going out together, but the girl he tried chatting to first is now jealous of them. Does this answer your question?

Answer 10

honestly from experience its worth hanging on to friends u can trust she may be acting akward now but reletionships break up eventually and its those times u need a friend

Answer 11

i think u should respect your friends feelings and give it time talk to her bout it tell her how u feel u need to give her time to sort out getting over her ex but if u anthis guy was ment to be then u will be