I still love her even after her confession that she cheated on me in my own bed in my own house. She is studying Law in another island now. The other day, after she found out that i sometimes check her hi5 website, she put on a picture of the Teddy bear and her in it. I remember that was my gift to her 2 years ago. I really had to go through a lot of trouble just to get the perfect Teddy bear. Why would she put that picture on hi5? Does she still love me? Is she feeling guilty after her confession? I haven't talked to her for past 1 months after her confession. She hasn't contacted me neither. What is the meaning of this all
2006-11-18 10:34:35 · 19 answers · asked by confusedagain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sad.....she doesn't really love you if she cheated on you. As a girl, Imma tell you this, we keep gifs if we like it, sometimes we even forget who it's from. There is no hope here, heal your heart and find someone else who will not cheat on you and give you their full heart.
A.L.
2006-11-18 10:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Angelus L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I always say I would never be with my girlfriend of 3 years if I ever catch her cheating on me, but yours confessed, maybe she still loves you.
If you really do too, then don't give up, you're strong enough to still be with her after what she's done. It will indeed have many consequences, you might not be able to get over it and that will be a relationship heading into trouble, so think about it deeply!
2006-11-18 10:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by rahimj_27 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say she is also trying to distance herself from you. Have a little more self respect for yourself, and break it off. I have been married 36 years and I don't trust my wife 100%.I know that sounds harsh but it really isn't. We are all human, we change, we are not perfect so there is room for things to happen. The problem with love is people try to make it more than it is. If someone cheats on you once they will do it again, and do you want to be with someone who takes your caring love with so little respect?
We have all lost at love but it teaches us a lesson about others and that is life changes don't let it eat you up, there is a lovely lady around the corner that will be better for you.
2006-11-18 10:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by John E 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't need a women who would cheat on you. Get over her. She wasn't thinking about you when she put that pic on there, she thought it was a good picture of herself. No, she doesn't love you anymore, as a matter-a-fact she never did. If she had really loved you she wouldn't have repeatedly cheated on you! She hasn't contacted you because she doesn't care, she is a heartless *****!!!
Get over her sweety, she isn't worth it.
Good Luck!
2006-11-18 10:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by Feeling Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she like the Teddy bear you bought for her. Not necessary that she still love you. I just got out of a relationship too, feel pretty shitty but eventually found new people. Hope you finds new people like me. Goodluck
Ps. Stop lookin on her website dude
2006-11-18 10:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She was wearing a teddy bear? How'd she know you look at her site?
The meaning of all this is if you are going to lie there like a door mat, don't be surprised when people step all over you. Get up and move on dude.
2006-11-18 10:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must be going for the wrong girl, she obviously doesn't respect how you feel about this so what do you still like about her? There are plenty of sweet and honest girls out there, you know. And this may be hard but its going to take some time to get over her without any contact whatsoever, believe me.
2006-11-18 10:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you still love her. You can't just turn it off like a switch. If you could it wouldn't be love, would it? It's ultimately your choice to forgive or not. But remember, everyone makes mistakes. I understand that it's hard to trust her after this but you have to answer a question to really decide. Is she worth it?
2006-11-18 10:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well - if she cheated once, she most likely cheat again. If you think she's changed - and only you can make that call responsibly - test the waters if you want her back. But, I would be hesitant to proceed with someone like that. I would move on if I were you.
2006-11-18 10:37:58 · answer #9 · answered by Amy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want to stay with a cheaping girlfriend then do it, but it will not stop. once a cheater always a cheater-Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
You will get only what you accept--If you like being hurt over and over again, then stay with her.
2006-11-18 10:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by thansen080972 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋