My friend got mad at me and so she is trying to win his heart!!!!What should i do?
2006-11-18 10:25:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all figure out if he is even worth your time and energy,, make sure you really like him... also you haven't even started off right... you lost a friend for this guy and you don't even know if he likes you... what would be the right thing to do is apologize with your friend and try to get back together and even if your friend says anything about yeah u better cause its all your fault or he's mine deal.. shruggle it off because its not worth another fight... also if your friend stopped being your friend because you guys like the same guy then maybe you should think about if your friend was really ever your friend... but if you really like this guy then i say go for it... but dont do anything you will regret
2006-11-18 10:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by sprtzgrl380 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question says it all. You are not friends anymore! You need to figure out which is more important to you. Friends that are true will not place ultimatums on another friend. A friend will somehow say, whatever floats your boat, floats my boat too. In other words, whatever makes you happy is what I am about! You both will want to see to the other's happiness, if one does not they are not a true friend. Friends are supposed to last forever!
Although it may seem like this is the only guy in the universe right now that you dig, believe me, there are others and relationships will come and go all of your life. Guys will come and go. Do not get yourself into a spot where a guy likes your friend just as well as you. You will have big problems when he goes back and forth.
Be a better friend to your friend and show her how to be one to you. Allow her to chase this guy and be happy for her if she sees him. If he doesn't respond, let him pursue you! It will destroy whats left of your friendship if you value it or what's left of it. That is if you pursue him and she sees that.
You will be so lucky if you end up with 2-5 really good friends in the later years of your life. You will find other men and in due time. He may seem like he is worth it right now, but chances are that he may find her too aggressive for him. If not, then you don't want to be with that kind of a guy, he is allowing himself to become an easy target for this thing and will end up being chased by women all of his life, something you don't want to be a victim of if you are with him.
This question has to be answered by you only! Ask yourself what do you value most? If they end up together, you will be out of a friend and a potential boyfriend. Do you like loosing both? If they don't work out, you are out of a friend still. Do friends come first or being alone with a boyfriend and no friend? Prioritize your values and then decide.
Maybe you have other friends that you consider to be friends or better friends, so then you have nothing to loose, right?
Hope this helps, good luck!
2006-11-18 18:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by laurameetsworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, maybe she is not a true friend. Some relationship like this usually don't last and for your friend to risk your friendship for a guy is not worth it find some other guy or let the guy know you like him and see what he says.
2006-11-18 18:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step back and let her try to win his heart. If she can't do it (50-50 chance, I guess), then it's your turn to try.
2006-11-18 18:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guyz should think about this would you risk ur friendship over a guy?
2006-11-18 18:27:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋