if this guy always seemed shy around you, and couldnt even say anything to you straight in the eye, or when he tried, he would end up blushing.. and since this guy was showing crush symtoms, you figured he would be a sophmore, (since your a freshman) even if he was tall, had a deep voice, sincere, athletic, smart, great looking, and didnt swear or cuss?
then you find out he's a senior, and he's GRADUATING next year, and the trimester is almost over, and the gym class that both of you had together, u wont have it anymore, and both of u STILL hadn't introduced yourslelf .. so u can't say each other's name to one another.. and you feel 'cheated' b/c u nvr even got a chance to make/be friends with this guy, b/c he was so uncomforatably shy around you (whose usually very upbeat and outgoing), that he made you shy aorund him... so the whole trimester was a waste, and since he was sick all the time, he made u suffer when u dont see him.. and now u don't think yull evr get a chance to talk-
2006-11-18 10:20:52 · 9 answers · asked by Rhyhaina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to him again, and this is killing you.. how would you feel and what would you do about it?
honestly??
2006-11-18 10:21:35 · update #1
I would be a little annoyed, but I'd move on. I would never date a guy that much older than me. (I'm a senior, luckily.)
2006-11-18 11:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok! my experiences: I was a freshman I dated a senior, and it was great! he was great! Dont worry about what'ifs next year! that doesnt really matter, what matters is here and now. And itll all work itself out next year...
and...for the shyness! U going to have to get over that if he wont. I think u should think of something cute to do, and ask him on a date (if ur allowed to date that is) anyways, u need to talk to him and get to know him...
And even if u guys dont get together, making a friend would be great too right?!
2006-11-18 18:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ohhhh, the drama, the pain, the teenaged angst!
Sorry you are so sad. This too shall pass. When you get older you won't even remember his name.
Sign his year book, wish him well and good health. You are a freshman. Beware of seniors. He's too old for you honey.
2006-11-18 18:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this is so classic.
He doesn't know what will happen if he makes friends with you and he's scared of rejection.
Basically he likes you "too much" so much that if you had a relationship with him he'd probably stay with you forever.
lol, poor dude.
2006-11-18 18:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by The Saber 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you seem to enjoy suffering in silence.
why is it always the guy that has to initiate? If you like him, say something.
2006-11-18 18:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
the next time you see him introduce yourself and make him feel comfortable to get him to open up otherwise tell him you like him or risk the possibility of not seeing him again.
good luck.
2006-11-18 18:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would feel cfheated or left out of time, I would feel like i would have to see him again!
2006-11-18 18:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by alexzandria 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do if you want to know if you might have a chance at a relationship, is start by saying hi, i noticed.....
2006-11-18 18:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i dont rally understand you question..
if your question is about dating him or not
NO FREAKING WAY!
he wants you to do something you wont want to
umm
and
dont date him
itds an act if a sennoir is shy...
2006-11-18 18:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by brittanys789 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋