My girlfriend cheated on me big time and made up so many bull stories about me and all her friends believe i am not a good person. While she was with me, she was dating another guy and slept with him in my own bed in my house. I broke up with her and got back together and her best friend told me that she has been asking him to sleep with her. She told everyone I was a one-minutes man. I don't understand. So many times, sometimes she used to have four orgasms with me in bed. That is the truth. I know not every time i was perfect. Why would she tell her friends that i was just a one-minute man???? Is she making up the story just to get other guys interested in her? She seems to be using self-pity in order to win favors from other guys... Is that why she is trashing me to her friends??? I was always generous with her, money and gifts... She is going to be a lawyer in 4 years. Is the saying "what goes around comes around" true? Will she get it also?
2006-11-18 10:11:57 · 5 answers · asked by confusedagain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummm, dude she is just a hoe so move on and don't look back. We all deserve better than that.
2006-11-18 10:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by questioningly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are chances that she's going to face similar situation someday if she's treating u this way.It seems like you get much of your stories from her friend.Comfront her with your suspicions to find out from her.if indeed she did trash u to her friends then she might be using u to her advantage.In relationship,nobody deserves special treatment everybody is equal.The problem starts when one becomes superior to the other.Are so much interested in what she will become in 4yrs if she's using you?If you feel belittled,let go,man.Get your life back on track and see if she won't run back to you.
2006-11-18 10:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Phy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont need to b with someone like that. i am a firm believer in what goes around comes around and she will get it in the end. u will reap what u sww, u sew to the wind u reap a whirlwind. trust me shell get hers sometime soon, meanwhile find someone else she is out for herself only to make hereself look the victim thats why she is trashing you, go find yourself another woman a better woman they r out there.lol.
2006-11-18 10:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by smiley283 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick the slut to the curb, do you enjoy humilation and drama? It is not worth the energy devoted to enact vengence. Move on.
2006-11-18 10:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Dane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. dont believe everything you hear. take care.
2006-11-18 10:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋