What's going on,what will happen?Serious answers only pls....Read all pls…?

Question

I(I’m a male) told my close female friend how I felt about her and she said we should remain friends.She said it 'wouldn't feel right' going further--meaning?

She said she don't deserve my feelings---meaning??
Said she can’t imagine me not being in\part of her life---this mean anything??

After our chat,we agreed to always remain friends and hugged.

I txt her a week later(sort of ignored her as I needed to clear my head,)saying how impt the friendship is to me and apologised if I made her feel uncomfortable and hope that we’re cool.Why hasn’t she txt bck for over 5 days now??(we’re usually in touch everyday!)I say anything wrong?

Why has she suddenly gone quiet on me??She missing me??What should I do?

We are attracted to each other....trust me,nothing misread.

Answer 1

meaning 1 it would feel weird being friends for so long then going into a relationship meaning2 she feels cuz she said no she is a total b**** meaning 3 i dont want to fall out because of this.

she still mat feel weird about wat u said to her txt her ask her to go for a drink presuming ur old enough or just to hang out with other mates u gotta respect how she is feeling and that she does not want to risk ur friendship by becoming an item

Answer 2

first of all ask her (going further thing) my guess is that she was either enjoying the non committal side of things kinda taking you for a ride? maybe, don't know, 2nd ask her if she has hidden something from you and your proposal made her say it, 3rd she' not making sense there, she is obviously going to call it quits, why because she saying that. 4th sounds like friends has a brand new meaning. 5th i think she dumped you, and that was the way she said it, she obviously never looked at you as a long term prospect and when you brought it up, she ran. ask her why the silence. if you were attracted to each other then the thought of friendships being ruined wouldn't get in the way. one don't think about friendships when there's attraction. you sound vulnerable, maybe you should stay away, your running into this girl and you don't see how hurt you could become in the long run. take some time off and cool it don't worry about her texting back. or maybe she is just playing hard to get. it's either that or shes gay if all the others don't fit. she might just want to know what your game is etc, just pillow talk or more. there's a lot of things it could be but your gonna have to brave the storm and talk to her again. sorry, but in the meantime stay away from her coz you sound vulnerable.

Answer 3

I would say she probably looks at you more like a brother than a boyfriend. She may have feelings for you but, she values that friendship and everyone knows once your in a relationship with someone you cannot remain friends if you break up. She could be afraid to persue anything further with you because of this. I am sure she is missing you but, she may feel awkward now. you just give her a couple more days then text her back and say lets act like i never said that can we hang out again i miss being your friend then im sure she will come around.

Answer 4

I have to give you credit, you went for it and were honest with her. However, it sounds as if she is not being totally honest with you. Women are tough to figure out sometimes. In some cases, she might change her mind if you are persistant about your feelings about her. On the other hand, she may want to stay friends because you are 'safe' to her. Once you take the relationship to the next step then you are no longer the safe person. It sounds to me like you need to be persistent and she may come around. Don't give up but don't over do it either. Good luck cuz at 40 I still have not figured out women.

Answer 5

All of this may have really surprised her. She may be just as confused as you were. I'm not sure what she is trying to say but I do think you should keep trying to speak with her. Even if she feels the friendship is over or something there can be closure. You never know she may end up being your girl.

Answer 6

OK sounds like she just got a little spooked and doesn't know how to respond. She does seem to value your friendship and doesn't want to cross that line and lose you.
going further?....she wants to be just friends
not deserving of your feelings?....she wants to let you down easy and say that it is her fault so not to hurt you.
she is at that awkward stage where she just needs some time to adjust back to the way things were...
if your such great friends i am almost positive that she is missing just give her time

Answer 7

i did no longer understand the 1st 2 in any respect. The 0.33 became into lovable. I have been given the fourth basically after i assumed approximately it for a 2nd and found out i might heard it till now. No offense, yet i think of you may desire to repost this with corrected grammar and spelling (Y!A has a outfitted in spell checker, use it) and proper punctuation. no longer attempting to injury your thoughts, yet over 0.5 of what you wrote is undecipherable by maximum individuals.

Answer 8

She doesnt want to hurt your feelings.
She doesnt feel the same way as you.
And a relationship that she knows wont work, will only ruin the friendship.

I think that she is clearing her head, the same as you. You were expecting this news, she obviously wasnt! She may feel like she is rubbuing your face in it if she gets too close!
Give her time.....but dont forget her!

Answer 9

It seems like she is also confused and needs time to sort through things, but don't worry, you two can remain very stong and close friends, and after time, who knows what will happen, she could end up realizing she has feelings for you too.

Answer 10

It's awkward when you first realize you have deeper feelings for one of your freinds. Right now you've done everything you can, doing more would probably aggravate her. She has the final choice and is going to take one of two paths. Either trick herself into believing you're just being creepy and forget you, or fully realize her feelings for you and come to you. For now, just try and relax. Of course, I could be terribly wrong.