he was pretty much cheeting on me but im the one who broke up with him should we stay friends or enemies
2006-11-18 09:55:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's up to you. If you want to stay friends with him, be friends.
From what I've observed, it seems it's not possible to stay just friends because it leads to bad feelings or one person wants to get back together.
2006-11-18 09:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by Bookworm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend would never hurt you that way. He just feels guilty now.
He knows he was dead wrong. Stay away from him, and his associates. To keep in contact with him will keep that hurt from ever healing for you.
You don't need to be enemies either. Just take the attitude that he does not exist.
2006-11-18 18:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really is up to you, but...
I think you should just stay neutral.
You broke up with him for a reason, now you should just move on with your life.
If he was cheating on you, he isn't worth your time. There really is no reason for you guys to stay friends, (unless you have been best friends since grade two or somethin' and just weren't meant to date), and there is no reason to be enemies.
Relationships end all the time...
I am sure there is someone better for you out there.
2006-11-18 18:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by h_a_l_e_y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No friends but not enemies. You dont have to hate him, but you dont have to accept such a bad treat to yourself, because if he was capable to hurt you that way, then he obviously doesnt love you and doesnt consider you. So try to stay appart from him, and in the future to look for a bofriend who truly loves you and appreciates you.
God bless you!
2006-11-18 18:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Shannella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shelby, You don't have to be enemies but you probably aren't going to be really close friends either. If someone's hurt you by cheating on you, you probably aren't going to trust them too much and most of us can only be real friends with people we can trust. Maybe just friendly acquaintances?
2006-11-18 18:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by Holly R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not good to be enemies. If you can't be friends you should at least be aquaintances who may chat and say hello without problems. By the way, if he cheated on you before he may do it again
2006-11-18 17:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by EC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends. It wont kill u unless u still have feelings for him. If he begs u 2 get back w/ him then tell him 2 screw himself and not b friends w/ him.
2006-11-18 17:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not a good idea, unless you are certain you can remain as just friends.
2006-11-18 17:59:47 · answer #8 · answered by HopeDasher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay friends ,very distant friends. there is no need for you guy's to be enemies...but don't go back to him...
2006-11-18 17:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't see why not, for what's the worst he can do if you're only friends? But still be careful.
2006-11-18 18:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋