We broke up on monday and she stated that she wanted to still be friends. I am not excited about being dumped by anymeans but I understand that the romantic portion of our relationship is now over. I have explained to her several times that I am going through the grieving process but that I would much rather have her as a friend if the alternative is not having her in my life. We are not talking very much (to allow each other space) and I even took her to the airport this morning without things being awkward (at least on my part). She is a good person and I would very much like to have a friendship with her. She is open in conversation but I can tell she is not sure how to react. She keeps making statetments that she is very suprised by how "mature" I am being about this and admitted that she would not be as "mature" if our roles were reversed. I don't want to hurt her she mean the world to meTo top things off she broke up with me. I am just very confused about what she expects.
2006-11-18 09:50:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you have to understand that it is going to be weird at first between the two of you since you are technically ending one chapter and starting another. Tim does make everything better though. I am good friends with and work with my ex whom I broke up with 3 yrs ago, but at first it was reslly uncomfortable, and even weirder when we both started dating other people. Just give each other enough sopace and try not to say harmful things to one another and you can continue to have a good friendship. Good luck
2006-11-18 10:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to cut the cord. By total separation you'll better be able to see what or if anything remains. Friendship after romantic envolvement happens on televion, not in real life. It could be, after awhile when you both have moved on beyond these emotional ties that still bind you, you will find there can be friendship. Realize though that this friendship can also destroy future relationships with others. So it depends on what you want. If you want new relationships, then this friendship may have to go on the far back burner for awhile.
2006-11-18 09:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably reconsidering her choice and may be having second thoughts. You are doing all you can. Keep it up, and GOOD LUCK!!
2006-11-18 09:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Hott Gymnast 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋