i have been talking to a boy for a while, but we have never "really" met... He is best friends with my cousin who is also my best friend... We are both from around the same town. He travels for work, and I am in college.. So neither one of us are at home. Well i was going to have to stay where i am for Thanksgiving and he said that he would come get me and take me with him to his families. Which was extremely sweet. But now I am going to go home for Thanksgiving, and he still wants me to spend the day with him. and i really really want to bc he is great.. The only problem is we are going to be with his family. ANd i have never met him, and Im going to be meeting his family that day?! I dont know what to do..."
2006-11-18 09:33:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really really like him and I cant wait to meet him 2!
2006-11-18 09:35:42 · update #1
he has said he wouldnt mind meeting my family too... he has planned on going to my house then his.
2006-11-18 09:38:16 · update #2
Too much too soon! Find a less pressured way to get to know each other!
2006-11-18 09:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-18 00:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are answering your own question. if you feel uncomfortable about meeting his family don't go. You might hvae talk to him toand tell me the reason so that he won't think that you don't like his family. Or just go and enjoy the day with the family, it could make for a wonderful day. But the decision is yours and yours alone.
2006-11-18 09:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should spend the majority of the time with your family, then go with him and his family! Its best to do that or do it the other way around!
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2006-11-18 09:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by chrisbrowngyrl910 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just try to get away from the parents with him and really get a chance to talk to him and really meet him. When it comes to his parents, just be you. Obviously, don't go telling them every little details about yourself but don't be a complete suck up. I once did that and they didn't like me...at all. Just be polite and all that. I don't need to tell people that though. Good luck and try not to stuff yourself too much with turkey.
2006-11-18 09:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kaitlyn S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel uncomfortable just thinking about it. I wouldn't do it. Your first meeting should not be with his family at a holiday. make another meeting date instead and spend the holiday with people you know.
2006-11-18 09:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by tinymight78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get baaaaad vibes about that . Really, step back and look at it objectively .
Too soon, too fast, too intense.
Your own family is where you belong . Get together with him when it is more casual. A family dinner at holiday time is not it . Trust me . It is not safe by any means .
2006-11-18 09:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if i were you i would tell him yall need 2 bond more before u meet his family and go home and eat with your family.
2006-11-18 09:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by j_babyface11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh I dunno, thats nice of him..but if you can spend it with your family, maybe just do that instead and make plans to hang out with him and some friends on another occasions you can get to know him better
2006-11-18 09:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by CoCo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO HAVE A GOOD TIME AND BE YOUR SELF!!
2006-11-18 09:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by vanessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋