Is every guy like this? It is driving me nuts. I love him to much to leave him but I hurt bad. He does not know I have discovered the lies. Any remedies?
2006-11-18 09:27:42 · 7 answers · asked by Darkwing 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep an open mind. Your instincts are probably right. I have been in the same position for almost 6 yrs. now. I would rather have him like this than not at all. I almost never tell him I caught him in a lie, but I listen very, very carefully and I take mental notes. I've also learned to hear evasive answers for just that and not for what I want to hear. This has kept the hurt to a minimum. I always remember that no matter how much I love him (and I will always love him), that I can survive just fine without him if it has to be.
And you know what, he keeps coming back to me because I don't chase after him. Confidence goes a long way.
Best wishes and good luck.
2006-11-18 09:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by jw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first things first.let him know that you are no longer in the dark and that you know about his lies. this is the best way to take the stress out of your mind. listen to what he has to say, if it sounds pathetic, then do what you have to do.
2006-11-18 17:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by mysticshabs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is key in a relationship, and when you lie you lose all of that including trust. So by that standard this relationsip is doomed
2006-11-18 17:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not all guys are liars - at least thats what i keep telling myself. but if you have no trust in a relationship its a recipe for a disaster
2006-11-18 17:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY FOR YOU.........WELL JUST LEAVE HIM OR IF YOU INSIST HAVE A TALK WITH HIM IF HE WONT LISTEN THEN THATS OVER HE HAS A NEW GIRLFRIEND
2006-11-18 17:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dump him ! no worth to love a liar !!
2006-11-18 17:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know you know!
2006-11-18 17:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by manders359 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋