i really am truly in love with my girlfriend and i want to be with her forever, only one problem is i dont think she actually loves me like for real, i know she really likes me and were doin great i just want her to love me so bad and id give anything for it, is there anything to help this along? thanks for any answers
2006-11-18 09:27:31 · 9 answers · asked by mitch w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you can't make someone love you!
2006-11-18 09:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by mistickle17 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this situation with my last bf the one I dated for 3yrs. I loved him with all my heart was ready for marriage commitment everytjhing. The problem was that he was not sure he was ready for love and commitment. I tried to force him to tell me how he felt or give him a time period to decide. It did not work. If they dont love you after a certain amount of time like after dating for a yr or more then I doubt the person is ever going to love you or commit. Trust me I had to deal with it and it is a horrible feeling to tell them you love them and not hear it back in return or having them say it but not really meaning it. All I know is if you push someone too much in the end you will loose them forever but it is also not good to love someone and have them not return your feelings after dating for so long. Hope I helped.
2006-11-18 09:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Reminds me a bit of the last verse of a Valentine's poem I wrote to a girl at college when I was 21.
It went "Give expression to my passions / More than annually I shan't / You can lead a horse to water / Make it fancy you? You can't.
If you're suited, love finds a way and will grow. Treat her well, let it hang out (metaphorically) and tell her you love her - without stiflin her with it. If she doesn't reciprocate, she ain't the one!
Good luck!
2006-11-18 09:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by anteodeliuta 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't rush love. If you say things are going great then just be patient and enjoy the time you have right now. Have you told you you loved her yet? If not then try it and who knows maybe she'll say it back.
2006-11-18 09:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by dAwN 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO u cant make some1 love u back the way u love her,if u try il tell u now that thats the worse thing to do,if its ment to be then its ment to be if not then its not!!!u cant do anything....goodluck..
2006-11-18 10:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by smokey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For gods sake man get a Fooking Grip,you can not make her love you.
Go boil your head
2006-11-18 09:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just chill out mate
2006-11-18 09:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know how you feel, believe me, but all you can do is be there, do small nice things, just show her you care, sorry but that is the best i can do
2006-11-18 10:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Curt C. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just enjoy it stop rushing it
2006-11-18 09:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by vino 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋