i met this woman and fell in love,when i told her i loved her that was it(she finished with me).do women like to be told, it really hurt me i dont want to go though that again,it seemed like she did not want to hear it. she was my life.
2006-11-18 09:23:35 · 22 answers · asked by dean69ner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man maybe she didn't like you?find the right girl and tell her beautiful instead of hot,tell her how much you live her ...but first make sure that she deserves it(means that she is the right one and she loves you too)
good luck
2006-11-18 09:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by The dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun the reason for this is that may be she has been hurt in the past and the word love scares her. Maybe she does like you alot and is trying hard to feel the same way for you but although she hasnt said it does not mean she doesnt feel it. you have to tread carefully with us women because once we have loved and lost it takes alot for us to love again or even to trust a man. we all know men are not the same there are good and bad in males and females, just imagine if a woman had told you that she loves you but behind your back she was seeing other men, it would hurt you as she had lied to you so the next time another woman said it to you it would scare you thinking that she was doing the same. im sure you are a nice man and only want to give the love you have but out there the right woman is waiting for all you have to give just tread carefully and find out their past before you tell them exactly how you feel. good luck hun hope you do find miss right.
2006-11-18 17:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by kjw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all when you first meet a woman do not
think of her being ur life as that takes a long
time before one can come to that conclusion.
Actions speak louder than words; if u love a
woman ,show her she will get the message and
if the response is not what u expect then give
it a little more time and if the reaction is still
the same then it is time for u to make a de-
cision as to weather or not u want to continue
with this relationship. U can't wait forever for
someone to be what u want them to be for you
however it does not take long to make a conn-
ection either if she is really interested in you.
2006-11-18 17:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends really on what type of woman you were with.....
I think women like to be told, she may have thought things were going too fast, so she stopped things.
All the best for the future you might find the right one soon!
2006-11-18 17:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by vino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how long you have been together, but maybe it was too soon for her. maybe shes not at that level yet. women love to be told we are loved but sometimes just like men we get scared of that four letter word. its a big step to some people, sometimes it signals a deeper commitment than some are ready to make
2006-11-18 17:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on my heart, just hold on to that feeling
We both know we've been here before
We both know what can happen
Hold on my heart, cause Im looking over your shoulder.
Oh please dont rush in this time,
Show her how you feel
Hold on my heart,
just throw me a lifeline.
Cause I'll keep a place for you
Somewhere deep inside.
So hold on my heart
Please tell her to be paitent
Cause there has never been a time that I've wanted something more...
If I can recall this feeling,
Well I know there's a chance,
Oh, I will be there...Yes I will be there,
I'll be there for you.
Whenever you want me to, Yes whenever you call, I will be there
Yes I will be there....
Hold on my heart
Don't let her see you crying
Cause no matter where I go
She'll always be with me.
To hold on my heart
Just hold on to that feeling
Hold on my heart, just hold on to that feeling.
We both know we've been here before
We both know what can happen
Hold on my heart, please hold on my heart
Yes Im gonna hold on to that heart
2006-11-18 17:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude it happens..... Dont sweat it. She wasn't ready for that....its not your fault. Its just a lesson learned....next time wait to see if you get the feeling that she loves you back before saying anything.....I had a teacher once tell me something about feelings, he said "ITS A FEELING.....YOU'LL GET OVER IT". I never got hurt again after that.
2006-11-18 17:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by Reneg@de 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, now you didn't tell us how long you have been seeing her. If it was 2 weeks, that's a little fast. Two months, still quick, but not unheard of. Two years, you're better off without her.
2006-11-18 17:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows, maybe she had problems or wanted you to bo after her, I stopped the relaationship I was starting because I got scared and didn't trust him too much, and I'm still thinking about him after months.
you dont' soung as unlucky in love
2006-11-18 17:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by south e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you creep them out or you select women who want bad boy types and abusers. Either way, something is wrong.
2006-11-18 17:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋