My boyfriend and i have been going out for about 4 months now. But we have know each other for ever.Well anyways we both feel that we are meant for each other.I'm just not sure we are ready to have sex.I want to, but then again I'm not even sure we'll know what we're doing, because we are both virgins.And I dont want it to be really weird or weird afterwards.Does anybody have any good advice?...If you do please give it up.
2006-11-18 09:02:03 · 6 answers · asked by meaglynn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're not sure, wait a while and let it happen naturally
2006-11-18 09:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by danni m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, dont do it. Only have sex if BOTH of you are ready. If he wants to have sex, fine, but if you're not ready dont do it. The only time you should have sex is when there isnt a doubt in your mind that it is what you want. Having sex will change the relationship completely and if you're not ready for the change it will probably damage it, wait for as long as you feel comfortable, if he is worth it, he'll stick around till you're ready.
2006-11-18 17:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by Kid A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it unless you are confident that you are ready.
If you both feel that you are meant for eachother then you have plenty of time to work with, so don't rush it.
It might be a little different for you both afterwards, it's a big step in any relationship. Sex is awkward, noisy, messy but fun. You just have to be able to laugh, and enjoy. Nothing is perfect the first time.
2006-11-18 17:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have to ask complete strangers whether you should have sex or not you are not ready to have sex.
2006-11-18 17:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by TheLastPrincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without a doubt, wait!! It will mean so very much more.
2006-11-18 17:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask , you can wait until you're sure!
2006-11-18 17:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋