We broke up b/c of problems and i had slept with another guy and then he didn't want me back and then he went out and slept with 2 other girls (one of them used to be my old friend, but he met her before me) now he wants me back and one of the girls is his now roommate and he said that he wants to be with me but he said he's still going to be friends with both of the girls and they'd be coming over to hang out and stuff. Is that wrong?
2006-11-18 09:00:33 · 14 answers · asked by jenny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THe fact that he slept with other women AFTER you broke up has no bearing on anything at all . You broke up he had no commitment to save himself for you. SO unlike someone else answering here stated he didn't cheat on you it sounds like you cheated on him. No it isn't wrong that he would want to remain friends with these women. JUst because he had sex with them once doesn't mean it will happen again. ANd furthermore after being with them and having a couple of months to think after you cheated on him He is choosing to come back to you. Life is a crap shoot your just going to have to take a deep breathe and make the choice to trust him or not trust him.
2006-11-18 09:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by Techguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheated on him not the other way around and he slept with the 2 girls after he broke up wth u so u should not say anything about that but if he wants to get back with u atleast insist that the girl moves out
2006-11-18 09:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by Aliyah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really make you feel comfortable with the idea that his one roommate is someone he slept with? I mean it would really bother me knowing that. It's like he's telling you he wants you but under his own terms. If he was any guy at all he'd understand you certainly wouldn't want girls hanging out with you guys that he slept with. That's not right at all.
2006-11-18 09:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he needed you returned, he shouldn't even have been thinking approximately dozing with absolutely everyone else. i'm sorry, yet whilst this grew to become into me, there is not any way i might take him returned. Its obtrusive you care approximately him yet you're needless to say uncomfortable with the area and you're able to pay attention on your intestine instinct. you will possibly think of you have forgiven him yet I assure which you will possibly finally end up bringing it up in each argument, beating your self up approximately it every time you observed this lady or he went to work out her and in the top, you will possibly probable stress him away besides. Like I reported, if it grew to become into me, i would not be waiting to take him returned yet once you do you particularly could supply him an ultimatum by way of fact he could comprehend why you won't prefer him seeing her - how might he sense in case you will possibly slept with somebody else? might he prefer you spending time with them? threat is he would not. So the two do away with him for good, or confirm he eliminates her. :/
2016-10-22 07:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it all really will eventually boil down to the problems you had and if those have been repaired. This really all depends on each other's maturity and committment levels and future.
2006-11-18 09:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by crazymom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probly ok, not sure though.
shouldn't we keep our options open.
I think so. Don't throw anything away if its good in some ways.
If you can get something much better try I think.
See what it is or isn't before even considering burning bridges.
2006-11-18 09:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is you need to drop that zero and get you're self a hero you do the same thing if he can have female friends and then you can have male friends or just move on
2006-11-18 09:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm YEAH, thats wrong. but you know whats really wrong? is that your thinking about him and that you dont really know that getting back with im wou;d be wronging yourself. the fact that he cheated on you is bad enough but the fact that he said he would still talk to them is worse. lose that loser
2006-11-18 09:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepiy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to hit the road
You don't want to catch what the other girls have given to him
2006-11-18 09:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya'll belong 2gether
2006-11-18 09:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋