intrusive!!!!
there is a girl who keeps pushing herself on my man. im a female so obviously i know how girls can be. he does not see it, he sees it as her just being nice and friendly. I think not.
this weekend he was going to battle of the bands with his family. they had one spot left in the car. she basically invited herself. his mom absolutely objected to her coming but he and his brother felt too bad to tell her no. i can understand that. HOWEVER my issue now is with her.
I want to know why the hell she would invite herself on a trip with my man and his family? does she not understand that if anyone was gonna go it should be one of his best friends or his girl!!!
who the hell does she think she is? dont you all think her place in his life should be commom knowledge? shes a nobody on the scale. hes just too afraid to tell her. should i?
2006-11-18 08:59:33 · 9 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your problem is with your man. He should be telling her off for you. Letting her tag along is unacceptable and disrespectful to you. He needs to get a backbone.
2006-11-18 09:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boyfriend takes after his mother and brother. The entire family lacks a spine. I can't imagine wanting to be with a man who is "too afraid" to tell another person that their behavior is unwanted, and thinks an intrusive woman is "nice and friendly".
I suppose this is the first of many battles you'll need to fight for your boyfriend. And his family. Tell her if you think it will help, but don't be surprised it they make you out to be the mean, nasty unfriendly b**** .
2006-11-18 17:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat her ***. But, if you don't want to do that. Then confront her. Nothing good comes out of being a wallflower and letting her AND him walk all over you. Regardless of what he "claims". A part of him knows that she is trying to horn in. You have to state clearly what is yours. If you let her walk all over you now then your man is going to think that you don't care and the girl's will all think if they flirt with what is your you won't have an issue with it.
2006-11-18 17:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin's Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend and his brother probally both had extra fun on this trip. If he was interested in her attention he would have not let her go.
2006-11-18 17:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by DEADGONE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how come you didnt go with them? or am i reading this wrong? anyway your problem is with him, not her. if he didnt want her to go, then he should have spoken up. maybe it wasnt such a big deal to him and he didnt see it the way you took it? either way discuss how you feel with him. good luck.
2006-11-18 17:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're darn straight I would tell her. What a nerve.
2006-11-18 17:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
shes trying to steal your boy. point out her clingyness when applicable
2006-11-18 17:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by kt! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her about it if she don't stop. Give her a beat down......
2006-11-18 17:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by Cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably enjoying the extra attention.
2006-11-18 17:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by Diana L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋