About three weeks ago my boyfriend broke up with me because I was “too” jealous of his friendship with his close friend, a girl. Five days later we got back together in the attempt to work things out. However five days after we got back together, I broke up with him because I could still no longer take the “friendship” between them. Close friends of mine and his told me that he was cheating on me with her while him and I were still together the first time and the short second time. Okay so three days after I break up with him he gets together with his close friend, that girl. However in secret and for whatever reason him and I still can’t let go of each other. We have been fooling around and what not. He stays he still loves me and I still love him, though he just doesn’t want to break the other girl’s heart so quickly. But I don’t care I just want to be with him again! So the girlfriend has become the mistress, and the mistress has become the girlfriend. Weird isn’t.
2006-11-18 08:49:51 · 14 answers · asked by razzmatazz2121 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess it depends on how much dignity and self-respect you have. If it is okay with you that your significant other is not faith-full, then be with him while he is with other girls and don't complain. Otherwise, move on and find someone worthy of your love and attention. Why is it that us women invest so much time in worthless men? I'm just betting that you are a beautiful, intelligent woman that could find a wonderful, caring and fun guy to be with.
2006-11-18 08:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by wendy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a soap opera to me. Too many hearts being played with. On again off again relationships. Time to move on for a real relationship that will last. Not one that has secrets and lies. Those do not last.
2006-11-18 16:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the whole thing is messed up. You all have issues. Definitely get some balls to leave him! He isn't the world.... trust me, no one is. Who knows what kind of STDs have already been floating around between all of you. I would first get out of that bad relationship and then get tested.
2006-11-18 16:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by Steffany E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it great!!! LOL
This happened to me to but I was married at the time. He cheated on me with her when we were married and after we got a divorce he cheated on her with me. I just did it to make her know what it felt like to be wearing the other shoe. She was always calling my house to find out if he was there and I always told her "Yes he is". This went on for about 8 months. As soon as she kicked him out on his ear I called it off with him too.
Talk about something coming back at biting you in the bottom.
2006-11-18 16:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self-respect and dignity are needed here. Stop seeing him. "For whatever reason" means you don't believe you deserve any better than some loser who lies and cheats. It's not weird, it's rather pathetic.
2006-11-18 16:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
""The problem is all inside your head", she said to me
The answer is easy if you take it logically
I'd like to help you in your struggle to be free
There must be fifty ways to leave your lover
She said it's really not my habit to intrude
Furthermore, I hope my meaning won't be lost or misconstrued
But I'll repeat myself at the risk of being crude
There must be fifty ways to leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover
You just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don't need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don't need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free
Ooo slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don't need to be coy, Roy
Just listen to me
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don't need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free
She said it grieves me so to see you in such pain
I wish there was something I could do to make you smile again
I said I appreciate that and would you please explain
About the fifty ways
She said why don't we both just sleep on it tonight
And I believe in the morning you'll begin to see the light
And then she kissed me and I realized she probably was right
There must be fifty ways to leave your lover
Fifty ways to leave your lover
You just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don't need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don't need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free
Slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don't need to be coy, Roy
Just listen to me
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don't need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free"
2006-11-18 16:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by love2travel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. do you really want to be played like that? he's not an honest guy and he definitely doesnt love you. once a cheater always a cheater
my advice - ditch him and find someone who really loves you and only you
2006-11-18 16:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by kd baby 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, if he wants to be with you, he would make every effort to make you happy. You can probably do better and have someone that appreciates you.
2006-11-18 16:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him! Use him if you want, get all you can out of him and then dump him. Realize he is sleeping around so you need to use protection, but maybe get him to buy you lots of things "if he loves you so much! hah"
2006-11-18 16:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by Jim V 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
whoa. just tell him you dont wanna play games, and if he wants to be with you. you have to be his one and only. you deserve better than that. if he cant give that to you he is not worth it.
2006-11-18 16:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by Tian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋