were messing about with ech others phones and i found pictures of him all over this other girl. i cant stop crying. he says it isno big deal n that theyre random girls but it is for me as i thought he really did like me those pics represented 2 me what we had and what has replaced that and i dont know what to do. please help me!!
2006-11-18 08:46:34 · 10 answers · asked by DesertRose 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are bestmates on top so letting go is the hardest thing. but it isnt as if i have been stalking him. he rings me mainly we talk everyday though we have alot of assignments now.how do u avoid someone you talked to everyday for years and years. im stuck in such a hard place!!
2006-11-18 09:13:56 · update #1
He's obviously moved on. How sad you had to see these pics! I think you should cut him out of your life for the time being so you can get over him in your own time and way. It is hard to get over someone when they are always around you, it can never actually help you move on at all but keep you stuck and miserable. If they are 'no big deal' to him then why are they still on his phone? Sounds like he's off playing the field and you are about to get caught up in a downhill emotional ride =(
2006-11-18 08:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Starjarus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON! Remember that a "hint" is just a way to lie without appearing to. He has "told" you the truth. Process what happened. It recorded his exploits with other girls and then gave you his phone so you could see the pictures. That's not a hint. He's saying loud and clear: MOVE ON!
Picture yourself as a highly successful young woman with a solid, exciting, fulfilling, well-paying career, living in a lovely home, driving an outstanding vehicle. Then check in the shadows of that new life, and she who's there with you. Bet you it won't be him.
Have a nice day!
2006-11-18 16:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by mcjordansr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he likes to play the field perhaps, not a good sign, he'll only mess you around most likely even if you do get back together, I don't really know what to suggest except find someone more faithful....it must be hard..
2006-11-19 18:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by Dan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that its hard to see something like that because I've been there but it seems to me this guy wants you and his freedom. If you broke up he likely felt he could do what he wanted despite any feelings he has for you. If he led you to believe that he wasn't seeing anyone else then that was unfair to you. But now you know and can move on.
2006-11-18 16:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by libra1079 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can kinda relate to your problem, me and my ex are still friends although i broke up with him I still really liked him afterwards but I've found out he is with another girl, although sometimes whenever we are together I always seem to think we are flirting and he may still have feelings for me......but put it this way he is a ex for reasons....you need to move on, I just think me and my ex flirt but there is no real meaning to it....been there done that...do you really wanna go back?? pick yourself back up girl and if you really can't be friends with him...dont talk or see him for a while.
I hope things work out. x
2006-11-18 16:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by hunybuny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you r not a true friend if u say:
"we broke up but stayed friends"
you never broke up!
he did!
you are still hooked on him and his happiness!
until you break it off:
you can't be true friends
have your own happiness
be happy for him
when you succeed in the above you will have a chance to start to be happy with yourself and then others
2006-11-18 16:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by tutorisland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have feelings for him, you should let him know, he is maybe hiding them as well. Talk it out, you dont want to go through life thinking what could have been.
2006-11-18 16:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time for you to move on. the trust is not there and there will always be doubt in the relatioship. you seem to be young and intelligent too even question yourself.he did not respect the relatioship or care about your feelings..let him go!!!
2006-11-18 17:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by illiterate007dud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think he is physically dead person and for dead one we have just memories try to throw all out from ur mind
2006-11-18 16:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously is not thinking about u and yo stalkish ways let him go bitc*,he let u go
2006-11-18 16:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋