I am 16 years old. I have a 4.0 Gpa, and Most of my classes are A.P ( advanced placement) I do Cross Country, Rugby, Track, Marching Band, Student Council, and I work Part time at an office(that's where I'm at rite now LOL). I am 5'4 and 110lb. I am pretty descent looking too. I am also very fun and outgoing and a really nice person. But guys I want to be interested in me are not interested in me. I have never been asked out by a guy that I've actuallly wanted to date. I flirt back with them too but they never make the move. I feel like a total loser because when I look at all my friends they're always going out on dates or have a boyfriend. I just feel left out or that there's something wrong with me. My friends say that my standards are too high or that maybe I intimidate guys. I am not desperate for a boyfriend nor am I seeking one out, I just want to know what could possibly be wrong with me or a reason that guys don't ask me out.
2006-11-18 08:35:54 · 18 answers · asked by J-Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They probably feel inferior to you. Guys like to impress girls and if your as smart as you say they cant compete with that. But those are boys, not men and thats how they are. You might have to wait til they grow up and mature before they appreciate your good qualities and realize they dont have to compete with you,
2006-11-18 08:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know EXACTLY how you feel. I am just like you except I am shy, not outgoing. Don't worry that those guys haven't liked you, in a lot of situations there just isn't chemistry. In most cases love finds you when and where you least expect it. Hang in there...if you DO figure out an answer better though - TELL ME!! you can find my address on my profile thing.
2006-11-18 08:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by katherinejean66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the boys around you are not very mature at this age. They will get to were you are at now in their 20's. You sound fine and mature for your age. Your life is going in the right direction and you have excellent qualities. They will see those desirable qualities in you, but you may have to wait. Hang in there. There will be a time you have to fight them away or make choices.
2006-11-18 08:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by guberDWG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that someone out there who is probably just right for you and is struggling to find a way to flirt with you without you turning him down. Don't push things, and don't be the one taking the first step. You are a winner in everyway and smart guys will be dying to be with you.
2006-11-18 08:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your research. Find out if there are any guys in your class.(smile) that match your criteria. 16 is not a bad number to have a friend who is just as smart as you. I am willing to believe that there is a guy (16) who have the same standards as you. You do the research.
2006-11-18 08:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ucan2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, how would you have time to date with that schedule?!
Actually, I suspect that there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you, but you just have not met the right guy yet. He's out there, just keep doing your thing and trust that eventually a friendship will start and then blossum into something more. . .
2006-11-18 08:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by explorerkade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Maybe you are sending out the wrong message... how many offers have you turned down?
2. Take a look back at those who did ask, do they all rate the same? That might be your status too.
3. Take a risk: It is 2006, stop flirting around and ask out a guy "that you might be interested in" and see what happens. Sounds to me like you might be a looser and you don't know it yet.
2006-11-18 08:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nuttin' wrong sweetie. Wait til you get into college..... the great guys will be all over you like bees on honey. In the mean time, keep that GPA up, do well in those AP classes..... --- you'll find a much better class of guy when you get to college....... trust me... been there, done that....
2006-11-18 08:40:04 · answer #8 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 02:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by wheelwright 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so good to be truth. Some guys just didn't grow up to be responsible for your needs. Don't worry - you get the perfect one soon. Maybe you should look for more mature - older boys?.
2006-11-18 08:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋