my friends r mostly havin sex (i'm a virgin) and sometimes i feel like i should just go have sex people make it sound good i had a lot of guys ask me but i'm too nervous what should i do?
2006-11-18 08:21:51 · 15 answers · asked by buttercup777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Buttercup
don't ever do that!!! waiting until marriage is the best way to go or until you are grown up & mature
Guys will only use you for sex & you will feel real bad & sad so keep respecting yourself & you will be proud of yourself for staying pure until the time is right
2006-11-18 08:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While sex at certain ages can be good, if you are unsure of your status or standing with your peers, forget them and do your own thing. Don't rush into anything, including sex just because everyone else is doing it. If everyone jumped off a bridge cause it was the cool thing to do, would you? No! I didn't think so. However waiting has it's advantages too. You will enjoy sex more when you are ready for it and you won't care what your so-called friends say or how they act. And down the road a lot of them will regret their rash acts.
2006-11-18 16:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should never have sex just because your friends are doing it. sex should be something that is shared between two people who love each other not just something that is done because it sounds good. My mother told me one time that if my friends were jumping off a cliff would i do it? That made me so mad at the time but as i grew older i understood what she was trying to tell me, and that was I had to live my life for me not my friends.
2006-11-18 16:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't get pressured into it because you will end up regretting it. wait until you are ready, and then do it, not sooner. also you shouldn't do it with just any guy because as much as girls play it off, it is really important. Believe me you will remember it for the rest of your life. wouldn't you rather have a good memory rather than a bad one?
2006-11-18 16:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by jasam4ever08 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Studies have shown that people who wait to have sex until they're married have much better, more satisfying sex. Also, wouldn't it be great if on your wedding night you and your husband were having sex for the first time, together?
2006-11-18 16:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't do anything b/c you want to 'go with the flow' or 'fit in'. Be who you are. I know it will sound cliche but sex means nothing if it isn't with someone you love. Usually it ends with hurt feelings.
But, either way you chose, good luck!
2006-11-18 16:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by ~Anna~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
please don't do it just cuz everyone else is doing it. do it when u feel like its right and u are with the right person. if u start having sex with just some guy its really easy to have sex with more and more people. then u become a ****.
2006-11-18 16:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by sexymama06 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait, that's just it people make it sound good, if you are not ready for it, then it's not good, you'll know when you're ready, wait til it's right for you. Then it will be fun
2006-11-18 16:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it just to fit in. Sex can be wonderful or it can be horrible. It will be horrible if you aren't ready or willing.
2006-11-18 16:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your self-respect and don't have sex. At the end, you and maybe your husband if you have one, will be proud of you.
2006-11-18 16:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by Rawr_Kitty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋