we have been seen each for just a little bit. i though ever thank was ok. but when the calls stop. i called him that what he had to say.
2006-11-18 08:20:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me go out on a limb here and suggest that you should never do what a man wants you to do BECAUSE you believe he will reciprocate. We don't think that way! We want what we want and most of us want it when we want it. We accept few, if any, obligations beyond that. Therefore, do whatever you do with a man BECAUSE YOU WANT TO at the time. Then don't expect any return, and you will not be disappointed when it doesn't happen, and maybe pleasantly surprised when he calls back because he wants to, not because you believe he should.
Also don't be surprised when a man tells you a transparent lie. Many, maybe even most of us, aren't very good at crafting believable lies on the spur of the moment. So if you want a believable lie, give us some time to develop it. If you want the truth, take some time to "know" us in a personal way before letting us "know" you in the biblical sense.
Old fashioned? Probably! Afterall I'm 64; what do you expect?
Have a nice day
2006-11-18 08:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by mcjordansr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men sometimes do that. It can be many things. If its only been 2 days that's not really that big of a deal. But you know if you can buy this book called The RULES by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider on Ebay or just get a like new copy for $5.00
you will understand how men think and it talks about this very thing. They can be very rude when they're loosing interest. This book can help you to become more empowered when dating or just seeing them. YOu know. They say some crazy things. YOu can also use this book to find out how to tell when they are REALLY into you or just out to be Playas.
I think that you should basically find someone else that you like and simply don't allow this one person to come into your world and run all over you.
sometimes we think that we want them to call us and calls us but sometimes they are not that into calling. Maybe they have schoolwork, job, just life in general stuff.
but you have to ride it out. I hope you can get these books called The Rules because if you read it you will not even be sweating this BS
its not that big of a deal sweetie.
2006-11-18 16:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by The PurpleScorpionGoddess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd lay low. You've shown him you're still interested. Now wait to see if he calls. After a couple of days, if you don't hear from him-- move on. Sounds like for some reason he's pulling away; maybe he's scared or unsure, or has already decided it's not a good fit. No matter what, you'll only make it worse by appearing clingy. If he's unsure what he wants, he may find your independent spirit attractive. If not, you're moving forward anyway.
2006-11-18 16:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by Grace Under Fire 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um, you dont ask a guy why he hasn't called you! he's simply not interested anymore and trying to ignore you hoping you get the hint.
2006-11-18 16:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by Coltsgal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shud notta given up yer goddies so early
if you are lookin fer love it will need time to grow
in the future keep your flower open for all to see
but picking any buds, stroking stems etc will need to call/show up a few times to your satisfaction
2006-11-18 16:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by tutorisland 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's just not into you anymore..I'm sorry, but I think you should just move on to someone else.
2006-11-18 16:26:43 · answer #6 · answered by goodies100 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go for some therapy u sound like an obsessive person...!!:(
2006-11-18 16:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by merry meet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is simply not interested!!!
2006-11-18 16:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm.. he got bored maybe
2006-11-18 16:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by ♥babygurl♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's turned his attention somewhere else.
2006-11-18 18:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋