my boyfriend is use 2 havin sex early n all his relationships so now his with me and i ask him when do he think weir going 2 have sex he answerd "2weeks from now"
but i told him,no im not like dat!! but how do i make him wait longer without him wanting 2 have sex after a few weeks?
2006-11-18 08:18:29 · 4 answers · asked by marie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any guy who puts a time line on having sex isn't worth being with.
If he is genuine and really likes you, he will wait until you are ready.
I'd be looking for a new boyfriend!
Chances are he made that up anyway - he's probably still a virgin and hopes you might solve the problem!
You sound quite young, so I would be asking why are you considering sex anyway? Secondly, for goodness sake, if you do - make sure it is SAFE SEX! I don't want to see you posting in a months time one of those posts of "Could I be pregnant?".
Make sure you know about these things BEFORE you do anything - and him too!!
2006-11-18 08:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by Gillian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very simple, you don't have sex with him. It takes two to have sex and if you don't want to have sex....DON'T. If he is a respectable man he will understand and wait for when your ready, if he is a A**hole then he will try to pressure you. If he does that he is not the sort of man you want as a BF. What he is use to having has no bearing on your relationship what-so-ever!
2006-11-18 16:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple fact is, you don't "get him" to do anything. You explain your position, that you're not willing to be intimate that early in a relationship. The rest is up to him. If he cares about you, he'll have no problem respecting your wishes. If he doesn't care about you and continues to push, you smile and walk, knowing you deserve someone who supports you and respects your wishes.
2006-11-18 16:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jaded 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do except tell him that you will have sex with him, just not right now. if he won't wait then he is not the right guy for you anyway, so move on.
2006-11-18 16:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by jasam4ever08 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋