how to make a girl smile, laugh, be happy, feel cared for or wanted?

Answer 1

Wanted is the easy one cause pretty much every girl is wanted.

There is absolutely no formula that you are going to find that is going to explain how to make a girl smile and laugh. It's learned through experience interacting with girls how to joke with them in a flirtatious way.

Like for example, talking to a girl once she made some joke about something I said, so I said "Oh ok! That's it I'm not talking to you anymore if you're just gonna make fun of me!" with a slight smile and I started to walk away...she grabbed me and stopped me - it was all fun and games she knew I wasn't really going away but teasing a girl is a great way to make girls smile and think you're not like the average "pick-up line bloke" - it's all really learning how to be spontaniously funny. Cocky (as in confident, spontaneous and willing to take chances type) and funny...but don't be arrogant...it's about coming across as being a fun bloke not Mr.Cool - don't act full of yourself or anything.

A great way to be different is to approach girls WITHOUT the intention of picking them up, spark a conversation, make her laugh or don't it's all just practice being confident talking to girls - learning - then say you better get back to your friends if in a pub or club, that's one way to stand out from the crowd of guys who stick around talking...YOU end the conversation...it'll also give you a good confidence boost - sounds like you might need one.

If things are going well chatting with a girl (you have her laughing, asking you questions back etc) seriously consider ending the conversation early - again you better get back to your friends or gotta run if say you meet someone during the day, ask her for her number and say you'll call her...and call her. You could question whether the number she gives you is really hers or the one she gives out to all the guys who ask her out - shows you think she is attractive if other guys ask her out and that you are not afraid of competition - shows confidence.

Even the phone call, don't ask her out the first time you call, just call, ask her about something she talked about when you were first talking (say she mentioned she was going to see a movie soon, or had a job interview) ask her about it - shows you were listening to her and not just oggling her, (talk for no more than 5 minutes) and then say you better go because for example you have training if you play a sport, don't even say you'll call her again, though you will...be different and you'll stand out.

Man, remember as well you will NEVER make every girl laugh or like you sexually, one girl doesn't want to talk to you, so what, it's her loss...look at it that way. I got a girls number last month, when I asked for it she couldn't remember it and had to go off to a friend to get it so I was pretty confident she would be interested in meeting up again to be bothered with all that (especially involving another friend in giving out her number), I called her twice but both times she had a reason not to meet up so I've left it and moved on. Just a few weeks ago I started talking to a girl and she just snubbed me off and all I was asking her was how to pronounce the name of a Polish beer "Zyviec" I was drinking (I was in an Irish bar in Poland), she didn't even look at me, occasionally girls are more interested in feeling good about themselves sometimes and they can do that by being all high and mighty when a guy strikes up a conversation with them, it happens and sometimes a girl just won't be interested in you - don't take anything personal...unless it always happens then you might be talking nonsense...and not to sound full of myself but I do ok with girls and often have girls approaching me and I've been rejected twice in the last month, so it happens to everyone...don't fear rejection, fear regretting not talking to girls and taking chances...!

Dunno if that really answers your question....I hope it comes close.

Answer 2

be flirty, lots and lots of eye contact. Smile at her, she is bound to smile back. Compliment her (not sexy or anything but beautiful etc.) Be playful, play with her hair, touch her arm, tell her jokes etc. Hug her softly, kiss her in the rain, hold her hand, things like that.
Gud luk xxx

Answer 3

tell them jokes and funny stories or even funny remarks. Also give them compliments but try to not freak them out. Have A Nice Day

Answer 4

I find pulling my pockets inside out unzipping my trousers and showing her my cloth eared elephant impression always cheers women up try it , but not on a cold day .

Answer 5

TO ALL MEN;
make us feel we mean something to you
make us feel like we are the most beautiful girl around
be proud to have us by your side and show it
-that is all-

Answer 6

just learn to be yourself as long as your a nice caring person with a gsoh you have no problem. just be honest and geniuine these are the most important factors. chill out and have fun then you will both enjoy yourselves together.x

Answer 7

Ok... I have looked at your questions over the last god knows how long, I think I may have even answered one or two... sarcastically of course... but you mate... have DOORMAT written all over you.

Grow a bloody spine!

Answer 8

spend time with them give compliments . really listen not just pretend to listen . pay attention to them. dont just talk about ur self. hope this helps have a good weekend.

Answer 9

Listen to what she says and respond accordingly. Really listen, and don't just pretend to listen.

Ask here questions, don't just talk about yourself.

Good luck

Answer 10

It's called the G-spot but,I'm not allowed to go into details here !