what do yall think.i should do?

Question

this man that i was involved with this summer, first told me he had two kids, then later told me he was married and had a child outside of marriage and now just today he tells me he has parented another child with another different woman. Now I am concerned cause when i asked him these questiona a long time ago he never gave me the entire story. Only as time goes by do I find out these other major features of his life. So tell me what do you think, Should i stop associating with him because every month i find out something new about him and the information is not voluntarily. I somehow run accross it in his mail or by listening to his phone conversation. And then when I approach him and ask about his secrets he gets mad at me and tells not to speak to him anymore, so i am considering taking him up on his offer, but tell me what do you think?

Answer 1

It's sounds to me like he's controlling you. He know's you'll come back. He already has two other women in his life. If he's repeatingly telling you not to talk to him, then he doesn't care for you. I would suggest you stop wasting your love on someone that doesn't care for you. If you have to get to know him by listening to his phone conversations or reading his mail, then why get to know him? Try to move on if you wish.

Answer 2

Either you break it off our stand in line for child support.
It sounds like hes a smart one. First he gets you interrested, then the more you get attached to him the more he reveals. He's trying to keep his new bed warm. You can never trust people like that. You will never hear the full real story.
But if you think, he is just being dumm like alot of men are, get a detective and have him checked out - in and out.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Run, don't walk to the nearest exit - Why are you looking at his mail and listening to his phone conversations?

Answer 4

he sounds shady..... what else isnt he telling you. you deserve to be with someone who tells you the truth