It all started when my friends asked her out for me, I didn't want to cuz I don't like her, but they though I was shy and so they asked her, at the end she said yes. know I want to break up with her but I don't want to break her heart. How can I break up with her?
2006-11-18 08:06:14 · 14 answers · asked by punk15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have the kind matchmakers go to her and tell her you want to just be friends for now. Tell your friends not to help you anymore. Say, "Please don't help me anymore."
2006-11-18 08:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ouch. well, if it makes you feel any better..the person i really like is in a totally different city and I never get to see him. And our only communication is through my friend's profile thingy. So, yea.
Umm...its never easy to break up with someone. I don't think there's any easy way out if it ecxept if you just talk to her personally and tell her how you feel. Make sure that your friends dont get involved or nething, becuz it could totally embarrass her and make her mad at u, and that's the worse thing you want to do. So, tell her personally the whole situation about your friends misunderstanding your actions, and that u didn't want to break her heart. You never know, she just might feel the same way about you. Talk to her. Tell her what happened, and I hope that will fix the situation. Just make sure that everything you do is between you and her, dont get other people invovled unless you know that they wont instigate the situation or make things harder on either one of you.
2006-11-18 16:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start standing up for yourself and do not let people make decisions for you! You made a grave mistake by leading her on, and not telling her the truth! Tell your so-called friends not to do this again, and to back off. Therefore, when it comes down to you finding a girlfriend you are the only one that knows what you like in a girl. You need to not waist her time anymore and just tell her how you feel get it finished. the sooner the better for both of you, and don’t worry about her she will get over you sooner then you think!
2006-11-18 16:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all tell your friends next time you say no you mean it!
Tell her the truth, tell her your friends thought they were funny, and that you really like someone Else!
Don't tell her that you didn't like her, but tell you were crazy over a other girl before you met her!
Tell her this" If i didn't like a another girl that i had from the start, i would be with you"
then she will understand that your friends were being silly, and that you already liked someone Else before her.
good luck anyway
2006-11-18 16:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by denise_evert17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you sound like a good guy by not wanting to break her heart props to you :) 2nd you just need to tell her not good for either of you if your in a relationship with someone you dont like/love it;; hurt her but shell get over it and move on good luck god bless
2006-11-18 16:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by lita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying with someone you don't care about will only lead to larger complications later, and bigger heartache. It's be better just to do it now. don't prolong the inevitable. Try to keep it simple. Don't make up lame excuses. Just tell her the truth. She might respect that.
2006-11-18 16:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by Govinda505 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she'll be fine. Just tell her that you don't want to go out anymore.
Same thing happened to me in the 7th grade...but with a boy. Then, my friends told him I didn't want to go out anymore.
2006-11-18 16:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by lkjgfyfukh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it isn't working out. You both need to move on. You will never be the love of her life and she needs to keep looking.
2006-11-18 16:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by Susan M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you think you should just be friends.But tell her in your own words.Don't make her cry break the news to her softly.
2006-11-18 16:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by K.C. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say im sorry but this cant go on any longer and play the song say goodbye by cris brown ok ok
2006-11-18 16:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by piglet 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋