girls and space???

Question

girls! do you find that when you start to give a guy space (ex boyfriend, boyfriend, etc) they begin to think about you more and more and want your attention so they end up contacting you? even after they just said they wanted space?? whats with that? they say they want space...then contact you a week later??

Answer 1

It is the thrill of the chase: guys want women who play hard to get... whether they admit it or not. If you are all over a guy they feel trapped, but if you space yourself then you are cold, it is a fine line. If they feel you don't want them, or may be moving on, that makes you more appealing to them. Guys are crazy!!!!

Answer 2

at an adult age.. time for self is as crucial as your daily sleep.. no matter how close if anyone to you, you need sometime to wrap yourself up and start afresh for new day.. I think the space you might be talking about is like this..

If your girlfriend does not understand you.. then there is no point having her for the sake of it.. else she would support u in every sense..

Answer 3

i found this one to be a good question . my son told his g/f this nad the next day he called her i ask him why he ask for more space and he told me that he need yhe time to see if he cares for her then isaid what one day well she never got back to him now he wishes he never said that.so i wish you the best of luck with this one

Answer 4

Yep... it comes down to selfishness. They want to be free but they want you to be accessible and feel free to come back.

Answer 5

I wish someone would contact me.....

You know who you are.

Answer 6

people always want what they dont have .....and take for granted the things they do have

Answer 7

boys are just confused about everything