basically i met this girl and I know I love her and i just want to know how to push the relationship further, i don't think i should tell her i love her just yet as i don't want to risk scaring her off, so what would be the best way to go to the next level ( bit of a cliche!).
2006-11-18 08:00:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am going out with her and im not sure how much she likes me but i have a feeling she might be the same way, but im not sure.
2006-11-18 08:07:51 · update #1
Dean, to help move this relationship along, as someone has pointed out, just take one step at a time. You will have to determine, before you proceed, if she "digs" you. She doesn't necessary have to have the "love" feeling for you yet but she should like you enough to help work the relationship into the "love" stage.
One way to find out is to communicate with her on a regular basis. Do you guys have anything in common that will make a first date? Is there an interest in something that you can share to bring you two to learn about the other - to see if there is a "fit" so to speak?
Once you've determined that you are both on the same path (don't assume - find out; if she likes you, she won't keep it a secret), you can start dating her. You should definitely hold onto telling her you love her until you feel it is right. You will know when the moment is right because you will know that she feels the same way or is close to it.
So, find out more about her, her likes, her dislikes and find a way to see if her behavior dictates that she has a fancy for you. Then you can go to the next level: dating her.
Remember, take your time and don't "push" it. If she likes you, you'll know sooner or later and you won't have wonder what to do next.
Good luck!
2006-11-18 08:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by terryoulboub 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, I think that you should see how she feels about you. Then, even if she doesn't feel the same, you should be honest with her about your feelings and intentions. This way everything can be out in the open and if you feel that you will never reach the level of intimacy that you want, sorry to say, then you night need to find someone else.
2006-11-18 16:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by hov1fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you met her, thats step one.
step two: go out with her on a regular basis
step three: become her guy
step four: become the best thing thats ever happened to her
step five: be all that you can be for HER
step six: drop the "l" bomb.
step seven: enjoy happy life with woman of you dreams
THE END.
2006-11-18 16:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by koda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take it one day at a time.
Are you actually dating this girl? If not, you have alot of work to do.
How does she feel about you?
Its difficult to give you advise on so little information.
2006-11-18 16:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to buy her a cheap meal at the local burgher bar and if she complains, then you know that she only wants your money. I would then dump her.
2006-11-18 16:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by AmandaA 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm just posting because I was so impressed with that seven step program posted above
2006-11-18 16:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by ~Leading Lady~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude just tell her how u feel and take it from there,lifes to short as it is so go for it.goodluck....
2006-11-18 16:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by smokey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start kissing her nicely and see how she will kiss you.
2006-11-18 16:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by nyango 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋