A friend of mine (she's a girl!) is crushing on a guy friend of mine. She's only just met him yesterday. When they are talking, should I go up to them and join them casually and normally? Would that be considered rude? She knows that I and her crush both know about the crush. He knows about the crush but does not like her as he only just met her. He also knows I know. We are all informed in all ways about all aspects of the crush! So would it be rude to go over to them? (P.S. I'm only a friend, this is high school.)
2006-11-18 07:55:55 · 5 answers · asked by [A] 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Talk to them just like they are friends. Go up, hold conversations and urge them both to communicate about their feelings. Your friend should tell the "girl" friend that he doesn't have the same crush, but could be friends. That's what I would do.
2006-11-18 07:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Shane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, join in the conversation. It's great to spend time with friends, you can take some of the pressure off "one on one time" since she has a crush but he doesn't really know her. And if she's involved in friendly conversations between the three of you, maybe he'll feel like he got to know her better and return her feelings (since you've indicated that you're only interested in her as a friend).
2006-11-18 18:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by JenV 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Treat them as your friends. Since he is aware of the crush the ball is in his court on that manner.
2006-11-18 16:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by firewomen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you should just join them, They are both your friends
2006-11-18 15:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by dtiplov 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Everything's out in the open, so just go ahead and hang out with them (they're both your friends) if you feel like it.
2006-11-18 16:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by locolady98 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋