preg & he's been my babe's father. now, i attempted to maintain a reasonable relation w/babe's dad, however during a visit, he'd attempted to rape me & another visit he'd taken babe "hostage" (within the first 3mos of babe's bday). Babe's >2 & has not met bio-dad. should we attempt to allow visits again?
2006-11-18 07:46:05 · 9 answers · asked by 4everFaithful 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No...your husband has MORE than stepped up to the plate. You have been given another chance; take your chance and keep things as they are. Their arent many men who would do what your husband has. Please consider that and dismiss your past life; except for your child of course. Be blessed!!!
2006-11-18 07:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You surprise me to even ask this question;
U need to stand up to the plate as ur now hus-
band has and take care of ur responsibility to
him and ur newborn. Why would u even think
about putting ur son in danger again. If u feel
ur son's real dad should have visits , then go to
court and arrange to have court supervised
visits and let him know that now u are in control
and that u will dictate as to when and where
and how he will have his visits with his son. Be
strong and let him know how strong u are in-
side and never let him control the situation ever
again because remember u have a husband and
a son now and u do not need a man in ur life
who to me is worthless.
2006-11-18 08:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what passes for having a life? He trys to rape you and your wondering if you should let him come visit again? Do you have any idea how that sounds? You really need to get a grip. Good luck !
2006-11-18 07:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way, your baby's daddy is your husband. Why would you put the baby and your husband thru something like this. This man has attempted to rape you and kidnap the baby and you want to allow him to have a relationship with the baby? Have you lost your mind?
2006-11-18 07:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by bettyswestbrook 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely positively not, any father that wants to harm you or babe, biological or not, should absolutel not be allowed near yourself and or the baby. I wish you all the luck in the world, and watch your back, i don't have a good feeling about this.
2006-11-18 07:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what are you crazy keep the baby out of this the baby doesn't need to know . the baby also certainly doesnt need to be in danger and either do you ok its the bio-dads loss not yours ok i would have a restraining order on hiss ----
2006-11-18 08:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by punky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*sigh*
What is wrong with our world?
Stories like this just amaze me. I think you best stay away from both men. You aren't healthy enough to communicate with any man at this point.
Your top priority is keeping your child safe.
2006-11-18 07:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am usually hesitant to judge other people, but you guys just make me sick. And there is no question here. Just live all together like one big happy family, or ask you two pimps of men to take it out on a gun duel!!!!
2006-11-18 07:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want your child to be around an attempted rapist??
2006-11-18 07:48:37 · answer #9 · answered by flushing06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋