what makes a married man cheat?

Question

i made out with a married man on a business trip and we are in the same line of work. he is coming to my place of business soon. i am totally attracted to him and am willing to have an affair. there is so much chemistry

Answer 1

how would you like it if ur husband did tht to u huh i thouhgt so ut's girls like you who try to steal other ppl's husbands/bf's can't u get ur own????!!!!!

Answer 2

First of all, I will not subject you to a "You Slut" kind of answer. I dont think that you are a "Home wrecker" or anything of the sort. With as little info you gave it sounds like you are not in it for any kind of relationship, (there is a difference between an affair and a relationship).
Therefore, you are not a homewrecker or a slut etc etc. This man was attracted to you and you him, it is his decision and his responsibility to other people, not yours. Attraction is an animalistic thing, marriages that lack that kind of attraction will definitly be candidate for the "on the side" affection. As far as your question...a man cheats because he is lacking something within himself, maybe he thinks he couldve done better, or he wants to feel he is still a stud and desirable. A lot of men become unattracted to their wives and look for that one person to bring some heat and passion in their lives. An affair is meant to come and go...is that what you are looking for?

Answer 3

It has nothing to do with how good he was treated or even your mom. He has a compulsion. It's like an itch. He probably promises himself he won't do it again, but when that compulsion starts nagging at him, he gives in one more time. Compulsive behavior is a brain disorder. Some chemical in his brain keeps hitting the spot that makes humans want to have sex. It was put there so people would want to have sex and keep the human race from dying out. Most people have this instinct under control. Others don't. They call it sex addiction. But I don't think it is the sex as much as it is the chemical reaction within the body that shuts off the compulsion, until the next time it triggers. Until the chemical problem is solved, this person will never be able to beat this disorder. He needs to do everything he can to find help before he gets a disease that will kill him. You don't have to love or hate this person. Pitty them, because they hate themselves more than you ever could. They usually draw in great partners that they will eventually disappoint because of their disorder. I hope your mom gets over the hurt and moves on with her life. She did nothing wrong and there was nothing she could do to fix him. That is up to him.

Answer 4

Reason man cheats is due to lack of chemistry that is going on in the house, and also man have a low self esteem, that maybe their wife is doing so much better than they do that they would feel superior or better to find another woman that is less or feel less than they do.

Answer 5

Like you said, chemistry for one. Some guys are so insecure of their masculanity that they constantly need to prove to themsleves that they are still "desired" by women. Some do it in order to get "even" with a cheating, or otherwise humiliating wife. Still need more reasons? The list goes on and on, but I will just stop here.

Answer 6

any conscious there???
does he have kids or something??
plz think of ur actions before u actually do them..
about ur question...a man cheats coz his wife isnt giving him what he wants and pleasing him in what he needs such as in sex, the kitchen, when the wife keeps nagging, when he gets bored of his life coz his woman didnt know how to keep the love flowing, and the routine of everyday and the most important the lack of communication between husband and wife!
oh ye and because he's an asshole and doesnt respect marriage!

Answer 7

Don't be a home-wrecker!!! Seriously...you may be attracted to him....but he will always go home to his wife. All you are to him is a new piece of @ss. On another note...do you know what Karma is??? Believe it or not....what goes around comes around!!! Don't let that happen to you....in time it will if you continue this affair.

Answer 8

I don't know what makes a married man cheat.Don't mess with though, because carma will kick your a** when you least expect it.Nothings worth that.

Answer 9

That is so wrong. Don't do it because if you aren't the one married to him, your relationship will just based on sex and you will just be that side-chick.

Answer 10

maybe he lost interest in his wife.

if u do have an affair w/him, remember he cheated on her w/u. (and how many others.)

THINK ABOUT IT!!