There is this girl who I WAS sure liked me....after weeks of not asking her out (I don't know why) I finally asked her to go to the movies with me this weekend. We are supposed to go tonight, but I told her if she doesn't call be three I won't be available (it's a lie actually, but it would really help if she called before then) However, the past couple of days, she's seemed kind of cold and uninterested (if that's the word lol) It's almost 3, and she's not calling! She even told one of her friends about our "date," so I know I don't completely embarrass her or anything like that (at least I didn't before....) most people yesterday said she was just nervous, but today she seemed even more uninterested.....can this really be nerves, or something else??? Do you think she'll call? Would she call after 3 even though I told her not to?
2006-11-18 07:40:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SHe has a life. Don't freak. If she doesn't call, she might be busy. She might have something important that she has to deal with. Or maybe she might even have to gather up her courage to call you like you had to for her. Don't lie to her, you don't want if to become a habit. Sure, it might calm your nerves a little bit to talk to her before hand, but after three, she might not call you because you told her you weren't going to be available. Just relax. BREATHE. If she said she would go, and she doesn't call, show up at the designated time. If she's not there. Talk to her the next time you see her. If she didn't want to go, she's not worth going out with you. If she has a good reason, then give her a second chance. Just hear her out. You'll be fine.
Just calm down, and don't worry about it.
2006-11-18 07:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by who_is_audrey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You asked her out for tonite, then told her you were unavailable? Why would she call you at 3? If you wanted to confirm you should have just said, "I'll call you at 3 and we can pick a movie." Dating is confusing enough without sending mixed signals.....You need to call and let her know tonight is still on if she still wants to go. Pick the movie, tell her what time you'll be there and go.
2006-11-18 15:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you give her some bogus deadline? Like you had something else lined up ready to jump in if she didn't call? If she never calls you, you deserve it. Why with the games? What are you thinking?
2006-11-18 15:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by horsinround2do 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her and act like you had to leave for a little bit and you wanted to make sure you didn't miss her call while you were gone. She might not feel comfortable calling you. All she can say is no...................Good luck
2006-11-18 15:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by horsecrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not interested sorry. She's not 'nervous' or nothing. She just doesn't want to be mean. Maybe she didn't want to hurt your feelings and said yes just to be nice. If you want to REALLY get back at her, get another girl (friend) to go with you and have her flirt with you in front of this chic. It'll make you feel WAY better.
2006-11-18 15:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why does she have to call you? You should call her.
2006-11-18 15:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by serendipity 2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its just confidence.. slowly she would definitely feel better and come out with you.. good luck
2006-11-18 15:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by sbharti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont xpect grls to always call you when you want them to. shes probably just nervous, but have patience.
2006-11-18 15:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by jumanjifaceee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She won't call you. You did a wrong "move"... call her and don't stay alone suffering...
2006-11-18 15:43:17 · answer #9 · answered by NA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋