My now ex boyfriend has broken up with me in a horrible fashion. He's pretty temperamental and always steengs me with hurtful words. Well now it's over and I need to hang in there until he gets a place of his own (my apt., my lease), but it's hard when I'm hurting and am in need of my space in order to heal and forget.
2006-11-18 07:36:12 · 16 answers · asked by "G" 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He broke it off with you, so he needs to leave now. There must be someone he could stay with. Stop letting him take advantage of you, you deserve better.
2006-11-18 07:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u need time to heal.. kick his *** to the curb, your apt.. your lease.. he needs somewhere else to go and be a d i c k .. do not let him just stay there and torture you, it is not YOUR problem. You can always call the police if u need to they will glady escort him out.. and don't u dare feel sorry for him.. do u think he is feeling sorry for you? and trust me let this be a lesson learned and never ever let anyone ever break your heart again. I am really sorry that u have to deal with this.. I know how u feel.. It has been a couple of years since it has happend to me.. and I am having the time of my life.. last I hears he had twins with some girl and he married her.. they are getting divorced and he is paying alot of money in child support.. it is called karma! so let this loser go! u will be happier.. and on to finding someone that will so treat u like the queen that u are! Good Luck!
2006-11-18 15:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want him out so bad, you can ask him to leave right away, that simple, unless of course you prefer to move out to a hotel or with a friend for a while until he manages to find his own place. Leave him a note that it is getting too stressful for you and that you expect him out by a certain hour of the day. If he does not oblige, then just throw him out. You'd be within your legal and ethical rights. Good healing.
2006-11-18 15:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he needs to leave within 24 hours. Have your friends or family come over, especially some guys, while he packs and then change the locks. You don't need to do him any favors or be nice to him - he has proven to you that he is a low quality individual by leaving you in a horrible fashion and verbally abusing you. He's lucky you don't get "illegal" on him ;)
2006-11-18 15:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by oh really 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously a very nice person that you have given him 'time' to find a place. Give him a timeframe so he doesn't overwelcome his stay. While he is there try going out and doing new things and come home when your hungry or tired. Find a new hobby to fill in time till he goes. Or if you want him out faster either plainly kick him out or find a place for him so you have your space back. =)
2006-11-18 17:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by Starjarus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is your apartment and your lease, why do you think you should give him time to find a place to go? He has hurt you and treats you with comtempt, tell him you want him out within 24 hours. If he is not out by that time, call the police and have him throw out. Does he think after breaking up with you that he does not have to vacate?
2006-11-18 15:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by bettyswestbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get to stepin...he had no concern for you so why should you be concerned for him? Let him find his own place pronto...put his stuff out so you do not have to deal with this person ever again...you are being a lot nicer than he deserves and you deserve better for yourself. You will look back someday soon and wonder what you ever saw in this guy!
2006-11-18 15:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send that dude packing right away. He's only gonna hurt you more, and the fact that he broke up with you, he may have been planning to anyway. You deserve to be treated better than that. Don't stand for any more of his abuse. It's your house and your should be in control of things. I' m sure there are better days ahead for you.
2006-11-18 15:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by Bob G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lil darling, how in the world can your heart break over someone that doesn't respect you, hurts you and doesn't care??? Kick his butt out, say good riddance and go on with your life.
You shouldn't be shacking anyway. He is just using you for his good. Get your life straightened up and be happy. In other words......MOVE ON!!! Good luck. Pops
2006-11-18 15:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by Pops 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well do what mysisterdid tell him that he hurt you bad and it,s time for him to leave this might seem a little bit hard but tell him you need spaceand time to heal he can always stay with friends he is using this to keep holds on u so just kick his sorry *** out
2006-11-18 15:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by crystalssonjosphen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋