i met a friend of a drink and we endered up havin protected sex. i can't rememer it as i was very very drunk! he said he wants to see me again. but now he has gone all cold. i just feel cheep and used. am i right to feel this way.
2006-11-18 07:29:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-18 07:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by god knows and sees else Yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Yes you are right to feel used and no you are not stupid if this was the first time a guy got you drunk like this.
He had only one thing on his mind when he ask you to start drinking.
If I were you I would worry about the protected sex if you don't remember it. If your on the pill...okay but otherwise.......
Find a boyfriend that will want to go with you without drinking and go from there.
2006-11-18 07:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to feel stupid. What you did was careless in so many ways. By having unprotected sex, you not only gambled with pregnancy but with AIDS, and you did send a message that you are cheap and available. Why would he want someone that he figures anyone can have at a drop of a hat? Alchohol dims your ability to reason, and I'm sure you recognize that now. If you want to be respected, you have to respect yourself first, and putting yourself into predicaments like this isn't the way. Not a lecture...just good sense.
2006-11-18 07:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by mizging2003 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its from the human nature to feel guilty about what u did and regret it! but it just happend, forget the past! open a new page, live ur life! ur only gunna live it ONCE! make sure u enjoy it with the good things in it!, skipping all the bad things u may face.
as they call it "a rollercoaster" a life is like a roller coaster! ups and downs,u never know what might face.
wish ya all the best <3
2006-11-18 07:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by Hayaha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there anything like right and wrong feelings?
Of course you have a right to feel that way (or the opposite) You need 2 people to have sex. Why should YOU be the cheap and used one? Try to think HE is.
2006-11-18 07:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by Beatrice B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel too bad, a lot of us have been there and done that. Don't worry about him its his loss cos you sound a decent girl. At least you had the sense to use protection, Put it behind you and be happy. Best of luck from an old fart.
2006-11-18 07:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by JAKE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so stuoid? you ask.
The obvious answer is alcohol. As Shakespeare said "Oh God, that men should put an enemy in their mouths to steal away their brains"
Why should you need 'chemical comforts' to cope with life? You are just being conned by the liocensed trade....as long as they get your money they do not give a monkeys what it does to you.
2006-11-18 07:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u are right to feel this way BUT in the same sense think about it maybe he was just looking for a booty call lol not to make fun but im just saying like its obvious ur going to feel used if thats what happens ... u know BUT U ARE NOT STUPID DONT U EVER THINK THAT lol <3<3
2006-11-18 07:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by alyssa<3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As the old song goes. "everybody's gotta learn sometime." Maybe next time you won't get drunk before sex. I would go have a check up at your family planning clinic for any nasty diseases
2006-11-18 07:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jeanette 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend whom you over stepped the mark with and slept with?
Well yes Im not surprised you feel that way.
Lost what you could have had.
Lick your wounds and move on.
2006-11-18 07:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you WERE cheap and used...
And how do you even know if it WAS protected sex? You said you can't remember because you were very very drunk.
I suggest not getting drunk in the first place ...
2006-11-18 07:34:14 · answer #11 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋