I am in love with a married man. I desperatly want to be with him.
We work together, I think he feels the same but im not sure. how do i find out?
2006-11-18 07:29:04 · 11 answers · asked by gingerb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find out if he's lucky. If he is - let him be. If he is not - find out what is it that he is missing in his life. Can you supply it? If you can, make sure he knows it. The rest will follow.
2006-11-18 07:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't. You leave this man alone and keep yourself from being a home wrecker. That is, if you have some self-respect. If he divorces his wife for you and you were ever to get married, chances are that he would do the same thing to you. So, stop yourself from making a stupid choice.
2006-11-18 15:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by Rawr_Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask him. If he doesnt give you a straight answer then he is not worth the trouble. If you have already started an affair and after 3 months he has not left his wife then he never will. It is best to move on to someone who is available. Married men will only cause you heartache.
2006-11-18 15:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who would tomcat around on his wife with you will certainly tomcat around with another fool on you. You are not " in love" you are "in lust" with this man. Find yourself a man who is free to fall in love with you. Do not waste your time. If he will play around on her, he will play around on you and treat you with comtempt. Get a good opinion of yourself, go for a man who has the right to look at you with love.
2006-11-18 15:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by bettyswestbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how you goin ruin a marriage so you can be happy you on some selfish shyt fo real. you that desperate for happiness you would put 2 people through a divore you gotta have like a million cats in your house
2006-11-18 15:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. here's what you do.
You take your home wrecking azz to church, the club, the grocery store, or whatevers your style, and find your own man.
2006-11-18 15:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You THINK he feels the same way?
If you were married would you want your husband's co-worker to steal him from YOU?
If he wants to divorce her that's on him.
2006-11-18 15:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by jdnmsedsacrasac1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is you don't.....that's not right you shouldn't do that find a guy who hasn't gotten married
2006-11-18 15:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not good at all! find someone who HASN'T tied the knot
2006-11-18 15:30:57 · answer #9 · answered by KitKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u want 2?
if he's doing this 2 her, he will DAMN sure do it 2 u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AND WHAT'S LOVE GOT 2 DO W/ IT??????????????????
he loved her 2.
2006-11-18 15:34:28 · answer #10 · answered by hott_stuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋