It's still a mystery to us AND to them.
2006-11-18 07:26:20
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answer #1
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answered by It's Me 5
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Nice question - I was thinking about that the other day!
Personality is a big deal to most women any way! A guy who will listen and is interested in what we have to say!Some one who genuinely cares about "her" and what is going on her life!
Kindness is also a desirable trait.
Obviously we all like romantic gestures but we can live with out the flowers and chocolates - what we can't live without is a guy who stops to say thank you for the little things. A guy who is willing share his problems.
It's the little things in life that really matter!
Personally I find a man who talks about his education and his car and his MONEY a huge turn-off.
Those things are not as important as a good character!!!!!
Xx
2006-11-18 15:35:52
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answer #2
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answered by honeyed_dimples 2
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Everyone, men and women want honesty, a sense of humor and dedication to family and those we love. Don't be smelly, well groomed. Also, when you say you're going to do something do it, don't just talk about it or it's nothing more than talk. Most of all be able to talk to one another! If you can't communicate how will you work out problems in the future?!
2006-11-18 15:32:30
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answer #3
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answered by DB 5
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I love long eyelashes, light colored eyes, dimples, and they must be tall (over 5'10") They have to believe in God, no drinking, smoking or drugs. I like them clean cut, no tattoo's or piercings. Must be faithful and truthful. Nice, sweet, romantic. Never any yelling. Wants to wait for sex until marriage. Weight doesn't matter to me. I like them white/tan. Has to drive, not cheap. Doesn't mooch off of me, goes to family functions with me and church. Spends a lot of time with me. I like him to take charge like when we go out. I hate huge thighs, hairy, and chicken legs. I need him to laugh and smile a lot. Have a great, random personality. Smart, can spell, is going to go to college. Straight, white teeth are a must. A long term relationship. The list goes on......:)
2006-11-18 15:51:20
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answer #4
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answered by *~*~*~* 4
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This is a pretty easy question to answer. Like with all answers, remember there are always exceptions.
But in general, women desire some quality that they deeply admire or desire that they feel is superior in the given man than in themselves. The problem in trying to figure out what women want is due to the fact that not all women desire or admire the same qualities. These qualities can be as diverse as power and wealth, to intellect, to confidence, to strength, to fame, to humor, to creativity, to social status, to you name it; and what they are attracted to in any particular man may be a combination of many different qualities.
But one thing is for certain, virtually any man (there are always exceptions) who is greatly respected, for whatever reasons, will have women knocking down their door, because if they are greatly respected, then they have some quality that people admire, which means there will be some women who also admire these qualities and will thus desire the man.
But what you cannot say for certain is what any given woman will want in particular, because every women will differ to one degree or another in terms of what they most deeply admire or desire or find important in life. All we can say for certain is that successful men will have women who want them, but we cannot say for certain which women will want them.
So there is no way to know what any given woman you happen to be interested in will be attracted to, unless you get to know them. Of course, you can fall back on certain sterotypes in order to gauge what a given woman will be interested in. Your typical suburban woman, for instance, might be more interested in ambition, wealth, power, and prestige in men. A woman who is deeply New Age will be looking for wisdom, love and humor, and a man who will be seen as their spiritual superior in some ways. You get the drift.
The quickest way for a man to lose a woman is when the woman no longer sees whatever qualities initially attracted her to the man as superior in the man than in herself.
There is obviously more to the story, and it is important to understand that I am just focusing on the KEY factor -- there are clearly many other factors involved, but without this key factor the man is going to have difficulty.
2006-11-18 16:21:55
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answer #5
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answered by Nitrin 4
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Yes, kindness and respect!
If a relationship deepens, then showing her by action and spoken word that you care for her VERY much.
2006-11-18 15:29:10
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answer #6
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answered by Patricia 4
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honesty, sense of humor, going somewhere and life, somewhat athletic, polite, kind, likes kids and animals, openminded, willing to try new things
2006-11-18 15:28:19
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answer #7
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answered by KitKat 2
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Women LOVE when a guy can make them laugh!! If you can do that nothing else really matters.
2006-11-18 15:27:38
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answer #8
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answered by Bridgett 2
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affection, sense of humor, ateast semi-good looking (just for the beginning to draw each toher together)
2006-11-18 15:29:33
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answer #9
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answered by echo 5
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Money and status. Any other answers are likely utter BS.
2006-11-18 15:27:09
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answered by Anonymous
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Money
2006-11-18 15:27:29
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answer #11
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answered by DEADGONE 4
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