2006-11-18 07:16:04 · 29 answers · asked by mslatinaboooty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as first name, be yourself and generally round girl have more personality and are more funny.
2006-11-18 07:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Im gonna state the obvious here. Although obesity is considered a disease...YOU CAN DO SOMETHING about it. First change your diet. NO MORE PROCESSED foods of ANY kind. EAT FRESH.
Next: Move around more. SHAKE THAT BOOTY GIRL! Start evolving a more "physical" YOU. If your freind/ family are lazy and have terrible diet than you must take charge.
Men adore a woman that looks after herself and cares about her health. Honestly, if you gain anymore wieght, if you havent already become a health risk, you soon will.
Your personality could probably charm any man BUT...Ask yourself this, why would a man marry a woman that will die sooner than her time.?No man wants a shattered heart anymore than anyone else.
May sound harsh, but this is reality, doll. I sincerely hope you take this advice. Everyone deserves love, mostly the kind that lasts a lifetime!!!!
PS- diet tip: on my weight loss plan, i stopped eating bread and lost 5 lbs in my first week. Cutting out bread gives you instant and long term results and is better for your body. Replace with healthier grains or healthier bread ( minimal amount of course)
2006-11-18 07:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by metismaiden 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try to be more outgoing. Wear cute clothes that flatter your body type. Think positive about yourself. Try to have high self esteem. If people notice you are depressed then they wont want to be around you no matter what you weigh. Once you find the right guy he will care about you know matter how much you weigh. If you dont feel comfortable going out at night to clubs or bars try going for walks. You will be getting exercise and that will make you feel energized and will help your heart. Plus you can scope out the guys.
2006-11-18 07:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by georgiabelle87 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Attraction is a funny thing. It's about who you are as a whole. I believe confidence may be the biggest determinant of attraction. People with shallow confidence tend to attract the same and people whose confidence comes from self-love often attract the same. What's most important is that you like yourself and that you are happy about who you are today. Trying to control how other people think or feel is a frustrating full time career. If you want, you can try smiling at the guy or saying hello, but I would avoid telling him you like him too soon. Lure him in with your feminine wiles!!!
2006-11-18 07:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by oh really 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some people are shallow!!!!
People like to generalize what "men" like - men are different and like different women! Some men like big boobs but I know some men who don't find big breasts appealing!
Some men like very petite women and there are some men who like women to be voluptuous!
Ultimately a man should be attracted to you because of who you are - the rest is just part of the package!
One day I when I was sitting in a cafe, I watched people walking down the street! I noticed the type of women that men looked at and I was very surprised!
Men looked the women who were confident and walked with their heads held high, regardless of height, shape, size, race! So I guess the key thing is that you are happy with yourself and you are comfortable in your own skin!
If you are not, then focus on why!
Other than that - just be yourself! You're a diamond that just needs to be found!
Good luck!!!!!
2006-11-18 07:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by honeyed_dimples 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
b urself. there are a lot of guys out there that like big girls. i used 2 b big so i know a little.
go out, mingle. have a couple of dances. men who like big women tend 2 hold them on the dance floor just as tight and caress them the same way as a woman of 110 lbs.
and above all, work what u got. play up ur beauty. cause u got it.
2006-11-18 07:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by hott_stuff 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
To get a special male to begin liking you, do your best to show off your natural beauty whenever you'll be next to him. Dudes like a lady which is attractive as well as confident. Never be a big ******, yet instead be relaxed. Find out what his interests are and take interest in them. Make sure to smile, laugh a lot, and also flirt.
2014-05-30 19:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try to go on a diet or find someone else who almost weighs 285 pounds.
2006-11-18 07:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by cardinals5_06 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
girl just be you're self love your
self and you will be soooooooo confident that every one will notice you and you will see that all the guys will be lynning up to see what a good person you are.
2006-11-18 07:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be confident with yourself, and choose the best hairstyles/clothes/even shoes that look best with your figure.
Don't forget to have fun and always be yourself.
Also, get involved in clubs/groups where you can find peole you have something in common with. Classioc dating strategy :)
Good luck! :)
2006-11-18 07:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by the_only_slushman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound like a broken record, but be yourself. You gotta let that super cool personality shine through.
2006-11-18 07:19:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋