Was this converstation a good sign.Only shy guys answer?

Question

2day is my ex's bday.I called him n he answered the phone.I said happy bday.and I think he was surprised.I was like ya I remembered and he said you've got a good memory.I was like ya you know me and numbers.I asked if he was doing anything 4 his bday n he said he's doing nothing.I asked if he wanted 2 do something n he explained he was eating n then he'd have 2 go back 2 hw.I said well winter break is coming up.he said exactally,so ya now he has more studying and work 2 do.So I asked if he wanted 2 hang out over WB and he said maybe.I was George's first and probably only g.f.He's not too confident,he's shy,comp nerd/loves anime.I'm hoping this is a good sign.I said I'd be kool hanging out even if you don't like me anymore.And I told him I have the anime movie we watched 2gether and I really liked it so maybe we could watch some more anime over break.then we got off the phone.said we'd see each other later.So good signs?what messages do u think I sent him.how does he feel?

Answer 1

I'm sure he likes you. Boys are a bit dense. Tell him you like him, instead of dropping hints. You can read all the previous answers or ask questions on here about overcoming shyness and see what you can do to help him out.

He may be afraid of running out of conversation on a date. Geeks think everything they say has to be 'interesting' or 'important' to impress you. Let him know that chatting about trivia like TV, Movies, friends, gossip, music, fashion, etc, is more fun.

He may not know where to take you on a date, so tell him all the things you love doing. You can invite him somewhere if all else fails, such as swimming or roller-skating. Smile and flirt like mad.

Don't do anything to dent his confidence. Let him know how much you appreciate anything his does for you.

Ask him to help you with something technical if you still can't get his attention. This gives him a chance to show off what he knows. Play dumb and cute.

Answer 2

There is a very good chance that he has the same feeling as you, guys who tend to be shy or are more passive (such as me) tests if the girl shares the same feeling by starting out with a "not-so-romantic-but-going-out-alone" date, so try showing some affection such as holding his hand or hint him with a little of your own feelings, if he has the mutual feeling, he definitely will respond, even if he doesn't, he might just be, you know, shy, so give him a little time and you guys will definitely bond at the right time.

Answer 3

I think you did fine, he may be worried about getting rejected if he tries to get back with you, but I'm sure he's thinking about you right now.