Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years. I really do like his best friend, hes a really nice guy. But he is always around! I can never have two freakin seconds alone with my boyfriend anymore. He is always with him, its like thats his new girlfriend! Im not trying to be a b*tch or be jealous or anything like that. I really do like the guy. But lately its just gotten worse or maybe I have just been pushed over the edge. Can anyone relate?
2006-11-18 07:03:27 · 4 answers · asked by georgiabelle87 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes but if you truly think that he is going to go away, you are mistakeing, friends will never go away, regardless of how long oyu have been together. Start setting up his friend so that way he will get attached to another girl and slowly start to hang out with her and get away from your activities. Also you can always double.......... but guys love their friends and will always have them around, just be careful because if a guy senses that you are tired of his friends he might start to tire of you.....just a thought!!
2006-11-18 07:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful disaster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
UHH You need to ask your man for some quality time. If he loves you and wants to spend time with you, he will make it happen. If he doesn't then he may have pushed you over from no.1 to no.2 on his friend list. Tell him you want to spend time with him away from his bestfriend, if not you may need to tell him you are jumping back out into the sea. My girl wanted me to just lose the friend all together, but she couldn't stand him. I told her no because he was still going to be my friend , known him like 12 years. She said if he still hung out 2 times a week she would leave me and she did. Later....L.G.
2006-11-18 07:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by michael a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah i totally know what you mean , my b/f and i have been together for a year and we finally decided to get a place and every weekend , my only two days off, he would be there sleeping on our couch and like you i really like him but it was just to much ,
I talked to my b/f and he understood , it did take a while but you just have to talk to him , tell him how you feel and hope he understands.
Hope that Helps
Lu
2006-11-18 07:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not approach the best friend, approach your boyfriend about it. be gentle, though. depending on what kind of history your boyfriend and his best friend have, you don't want to be making anything sound like an ultimatum.
2006-11-18 07:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋