i feel so guilty. i think i love my friend. is loving a friend normal?. can friends love eachother and get on as well as couples do?. i feel guilty because i feel that my friend may have loved me before. but because it took me time to admit to my feelings that i had always had for her i feel that she doesnt anymore. is it my fault? i feel that if i had done things differently we may have been more thand just friends.we have always flirted with eachohter but she always seemed to have a bf.GETS COMPLICATED than i met her sister and we got on really well.she asked me out and i accepted because i couldnt admit to the feelings that i knew i had for my friend.a week later she dumped me.althougth this could be the reason that my friend went off me i feel it was a blesssing in disguise.it actually helped me to admit to myself that i loved my friend. but is it too late?i didnt do anything with her sister not even kiss.we get on aswell as before so is it my fault that she could have gone off me?
2006-11-18 06:27:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You REALLY need to speak with her and lay it out....blood is thicker than water. But if you have done nothing with the sister than you should be ok! But I do not think it's to late based on the info you have given. Be confident and tell her because your not gonna feel better until you do!
2006-11-18 06:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend!! Tell her how you feel, and that you felt nothing for her sister. You didn't even kiss her sister, so there's no reason for your friend to stay mad at you. Let her know that you respect her feelings and that if you'd known it would have upset her, you never would have gone out with her sister. Maybe you can say that you and the sister just hung out as friends too and that you didn't really date. I don't think you've done anything wrong. Maybe your friend was so upset because she has feelings for you, too. You need to tell her and find out how she feels about you. She's probably waiting for you to talk to her now!
2006-11-18 06:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to assert this yet, he isnt that kinda guy that merits a definite or good lady such as you. Hes completely finding for bitches. Cuz whos different than bitches that hug a boy and without a reason? i think of u could pass on. yet on an identical time, whilst he hugs(if he did) in simple terms tell him what you sense precisely! And approximately that hes a playboy, u could replace him if he rather enjoyed you :).. so go away HIM OR WAIT ;)
2016-10-22 07:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really serious I suggest that you write her a letter telling her how you feel
Feeling guilty will not help; being practical about it might.
If it really is love that you both feel, and not just infatuation, then time will prove it.
Anything worthwhile is worth waiting for.
2006-11-18 07:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke her heart when you dated her sister. Point blank. So, if you TRUELY love her and care about her, apologize and move on. if she wants to be your friend, then cherish her for her kind and forgiving nature. Let her know your feelings for her AFTER she has forgiven you. Just be warned, once you date then break up, most people loose that friendship, however, it can still work out. Just keep your chin up.
2006-11-18 06:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Paola G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her out or do something dont feel guilty Hurry before she's taken
it's not ur fault
♥
2006-11-19 09:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its nvr 2 late go 4 it
2006-11-18 06:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to be indecisive now I'm not so sure
2006-11-18 07:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by mac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel about her again
2006-11-18 06:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a life! move on, dont worry too much life is a surprise...
2006-11-18 06:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by geieyoung 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋