I dated a guy for about a month, and he found out about something from my past, and he was hurt by it. We didn't talk for a week, and then he asked me to come over to his house and talk with him about it. I apologized, and he said he forgave me, and then he said he wanted to still see me, except that he wants to move slowly. Does moving slowly mean that he's just not that into me?
2006-11-18 06:26:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means that what ever it was that he found out has rattled his world view of you. However it has not stopped him from wanting to be with you. He needs time to put things back in order in his head. Grant him the time he needs, and things should work out alright.
2006-11-18 06:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that he would like to get to know you over a period of time and decide if you're a girl he wants to continue seeing as he learns about you. Most likely, if he's any kind of man, he won't be interested in getting physical until there's a relationship. He's only known you for 30 days, so I think his request to take things slow is a good sign.
2006-11-18 14:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe him moving slowly is his way of trying to adjust to the news. Or how to deal with it.. As long as he does not hold it against you I would not worry to much. Let him have his time. He may need to take it slow for now till he adjusts to the news. I would not worry to much yet...
2006-11-18 14:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by cyborg_2099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you have to apologise for your past!!! I bet he has some skeltons in his cupboard. I wouldnt bother with him, but that me. If he wants to move slowly...does that include having sex with him...just a thought that he may be using you...;
2006-11-18 14:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it means he wants to slow things down that he wants to get to know u more make sure u tell him that the past is the past and he figures if u hide that from him what else r u hiding from him
2006-11-18 14:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by A soldiers wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just saying that you guys need to find more things about each other so you know you're w/ the right person
2006-11-18 14:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly why did u apologize to him u did not hurt him or do anything to him,but whatever.He means that he does not want to rush things between u and him.
2006-11-18 14:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by Aliyah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know honestly slowley can mean a number of things. but pay attention to the signs and i'm sure they'll be revealed to you. just wait minute first and see. don't make your desicssion right now.
2006-11-18 14:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesnt mean he's not into you. he just doesnt want anything bad to happen in the long run. i think its a good thing to take things slow :)
2006-11-18 14:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by Its Me* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means you get to stay around till someone else shows up..find a new boyfriend.
2006-11-18 14:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋