I'm 15 years old , but I didn't have my first kiss yet or neither a boyfriend. I'm good looking, funny and I can't say that my character is that bad. I have lots of guys friends/// but not a boyfriend in sight.
Sometimes I think that I'm a looser...
I just didn't find the right guy yet////or maybe he didn't find me...
I allways told my friend that I had lots of boyfriends///I wish it were thruth///because most of my classmates dated with someone allwready....except for me..
besides I don't even know how to kiss //////and when I'll find someone...he'll just make fun of me when he finds that out...I'll just fell soooooo embaresed and a total loser!!!!!
and I'm mooving to greece this year and just don't want things to be so and there!
2006-11-18 06:18:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bbz it's kk hunny if you eva need to talk the please email me i'm 13 and i mean it hunny it would be nice to her from ya.
pinky xx
2006-11-18 06:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by danni 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You probly don't want to hear this but you are still a bit young to be that serious. I didn't kiss till I was 15 and I wish I would have skipped kissing her. As for how to kiss I doubt you'll have that much trouble figuring it out. If you are with a guy that would make fun of you DON'T kiss him.. he's not worth it. There is so much focus on being of age now that we get worried if we think we are behind. You probly won't like this either but you being worried about this is about like being worried that a 2 year old hasn't tried steak yet. It's not to say that all that you feel is stupid... just that I hope you can put it into perspective before you run out and try to kiss the first boy you can and miss out on the joy and excitement of the first kiss to someone that cares for you as well. Good luck and enjoy being 15 without stressing.
2006-11-18 06:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Youre still young. Moving is going to be harder than you think too.
I would focus more on making good friends at your age and less on the opposite sex. I know its important for young men and women to feel accepted by the opposite sex, but believe me when your older, youll be beating them off with a stick.
Um, dont rush into the whole dating thing. Youre really not missing much, and no matter how 'experienced' you are in dating a young age, it won't make you more secure, or feel any more confident about starting a relationship.
Find someone you like first. Thats most important. And hey, find a good figure in your life whos a woman. Talk to her about all this stuff. Im sure she'll have great advice.
2006-11-18 06:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by Clark W Griswold 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you, to be 15 and not have a boyfriend yet, there is plenty of time for boyfriends, hand holding, kissing, dating, and every thing in between.
When I was your age, I was so fast and I got in to soooo much trouble because of my being so boy crazy. I got pregnant by the time I was in my 2nd year of high school and parents took me to go get an abortion. Can you imagine how embarrassing that was for me?????? No, you will never know, nor do I want you to experience something like that.
So, from some one who has been there done that, you are on the right track. Stay focused on enjoying your teenage years and enjoy life, because adulthood will be here before you know it.
2006-11-18 06:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Staci C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont freak out.. Keep the way you are.. You are perfectly normal, and nothing is wrong with you.. You want to know something interesting?
Adults have these problems. There are adults that even though they claim they know how to do "this" or "that", they actually dont. They can be 40,50,60, it doesnt matter. When it comes to interpersonal relationships, nothing is known, and nothing is a given. We all find these things out as we explore, but dont explore until you are ready to. Dont let others pressure you either, then you will have regret later on. Age is not a factor here, only individualism. We all learn and grow at our own paces, and some do it much much later in life. Its still OK. Keep moving the direction you want. Dont push or force things, as i you do want to learn about this, it will come to you in time. And it evens comes to you at times you wish it didnt! LOL!
2006-11-18 06:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I admire your ability to communicate your inner thoughts. Part of life is developing who we are & having others share in our experiences and accomplishments. How we live an authentic life is when we are true to ourselves, our time, our energy, our thoughts, and our actions. The fact that you sought out answers for yourself is a strong step.
My daughter is 16 & we work at our relationship. Hopefully you can develop a closeness with yours too. Its never too late. Having a mentor is a great thing for people of all ages. Someone who you admire, who has solid values, is a good listener & sounding board.
I compiled some interesting links for you to read up on. First is self confidence because nothing is sexier ;) Second is on flirting, how to know the signs or to flirt smart with those who catch your eye. Third is a Q&A (questions and answers) about Teen Kissing and Makeing Out. Lastly a how-to guide for the various kinds of Kisses. Educating yourself is important but putting your knowledge to use is essential. Don't rush any of life's experiences along... let them develop naturally & enjoy :)
http://www.more-selfesteem.com/self_confidence_tips.htm
http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
http://teenadvice.about.com/library/weekly/aa010203a.htm
http://www.kissingbooth.com/how_to_kiss.htm
2006-11-18 08:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you only 15 so don't worry about dating. Worry about learning and having fun. The kiss will happen when it's the right time. And if he makes fun of you afterwards then you know that he is a loser.
2006-11-18 06:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look forward to the move to Greece...you are 15...enjoy it! who cares if you haven't dated already, or kissed. these things are not goals...they are landmark events...you can't force a landmark event in your life to happen. It has to happen all by itself in it's own time...Stop being so impatient about growing up and just enjoy the life you have. If you need a little boost for your self-esteem...your life is not the same as your friends lives...they are different people and they should not be expecting you to become sexually active. You will when you art ready. You just ain't ready yet.
2006-11-18 06:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is like wine...the longer it takes,the better it is.And have u realized?that a guy new to kissing wud also be feeling the same.DOnt worry dear,u are only 15 yrs old.Dont jump into relations coz ur friend already has one.Someday,a guy will respect you and like u for what you are.Till then,hang on and hand around with ur friends.
2006-11-18 06:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by Vishnu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. You're just a late bloomer is all. Don't be in all that big of a hurry to grow up. Remember that you are a child for just a short time, but a adult the rest of your life. There will be a time for everything and everything will come to you in it's own right time.
2006-11-18 06:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT WORRY ABOUT IT. I bet right now ur thinkin wat do i mean not to worry about it. About the kiss thing. Dont worry, once it happens your just gonna go with the flow and see that u were makin a big deal out of nothing. Maybe boys are attracted to but you dont give signs to show that you may be interested. Try flirting with them, give them a lil push or compliment them on something you like bout it. DONT WORRY... it will all come with time.. but i bet you want that time to be now huh?? lol il know how u feel. :)
2006-11-18 06:25:01 · answer #11 · answered by Its Me* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋