its been shown that about 2/3 of marriages end in divorce. and that the 1/3 that are married are usualy unstable and they are unhappy. how many people do you guys know that actualy grow old together??? and even then at that age you know the spark isnt there anymore and are just staying with eachother cause thats all they know. i dont know about you guys but there is no such thing as romantic love
2006-11-18 06:18:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is. Statistics can be baised, but they can also be true. So many things have changed in the last 50 years with people and relationships. People need to be just more selective, and not so fast to ignore red flags and jump into seriousely comitted relationships and marriage. We as a society have lost control of ourselves by putting demands on ourselves to get into something prematurely because we have to have it "now".
2006-11-18 06:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stats are tricky things, if you've been divorced once you are more likely to get divorced again, and these stats are about how many marriages, not how many people. Also it takes into account things like Hollywood 5 minutes, I want a pretty dress and a diamond ring weddings (they really aren't marriages). The stats on how many first marriages end in divorce are much lower.
Also people today aren't willing to work on things, they are lazy and think that everything will be perfect, and become disillusioned when things go wrong. All in all true love exists but you have to work really hard on it. That whole if it don't come easy thing is not true.
2006-11-18 06:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by Decade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has more to do with the attitude and beliefs of the couple. Most people I know don't have lasting problems and I only know a few who have been divorsed. I met my wife in mid August, we were engaged in Oct, and married in Jan. We are BEST friends and divorce has never even been an option for us... the worst problem this world has no is it is used as an out of hard times. The hard times are what cement you together. If you don't know any happily married people you need a different group of friends
2006-11-18 06:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is such a thing as true love. One hundred percent of me is romantic.
2016-05-22 01:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Logic. You don't love with your brain, you love with your heart. So, stop looking at it in terms of statistics, numbers, and odds. Open your heart to a girl, but not just any girl either. I know plenty of people who die together. In this past year alone, I have been to 6 "50th" year anniversaries, 2 "60th", and 1 "80th"! So true love exists, you just have to look for it and never give up. Best of luck sweetheart and keep your chin up...it always seems darkest before dawn.
2006-11-18 06:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by Paola G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course there is such thing as true love/. if you feel great with a person like your floating on a cload then yes. but sometimes love doesnt work out but dont lose hope. there might just be a guy out there that belongs w/ you. love is magic
2006-11-18 06:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by lobifluff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romantic love does exist. The "spark" fades in any relationship, but what takes its place is a comfortable secure feeling of knowing you love and are loved and have someone you can depend on.
2006-11-18 06:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is but if you just marry the person that is "hot" then normally it will end in an unhappy marriage
2006-11-18 06:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by philip d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r right there is no romantic true love...but the love for a mother towards her children is definitely true...so love is true
2006-11-18 06:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by The WOBO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah there is,just the right pple hav to end up together,cause me im a hopeles romantic so yeah,nvr so that again
2006-11-18 06:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by Gollum 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋