Ok me and my bf have been dating for 7yrs now. On our 2nd year what night we got in a huge fight and he broke up with me and repeatly he said it was over for good and he would never get back with me. Well, the stupid mistake he made that night when we broke up was to sleep with some h*e that had gone to school with us. she was known to be the biggest sl*t ever. Well, a week later we got back together and of course I didnt know anything and never the less a month later I found out I had herpes. He was in shocked but denied he had cheated and I was numbed and didnt know to react. Well recently about 3 months ago I found it was her she had slept with and its brought me a lot of bad feelings & thoughts that I had overcome. I am not justying that what he did was OK but, she knew she had herpes and slept with him without using protection. Now my question is will this ever catch up to her? what comes around really goes around? sometime I feel like taking this in my hands.
2006-11-18 06:13:07 · 10 answers · asked by ME 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What really piss me off is that she STILL sleeping around infecting other people. And I dont want anyone to experience what i experience. I feel like knocking her front teeth. But, I know its not worth I would be scooping down to her (hoe) level.
2006-11-18 06:14:12 · update #1
Honey, I'm so sorry for you. Protection won't necessarily protect anyone from herpes anyway. It can be transferred with or without protection. But rest assurred that yes, what goes around does come around, one way or another. There are worse things out there than herpes and a gal like that who has absolutely no love for herself just might run across someone with AIDS, or HepatitisB. Stop torturing yourself about the girl; it's her life and you can't control what happened. She doesn't have the foggiest idea you're blaming her nor does she care. Put that energy where you can use it for good. OH...and put a leash on your man. Godloveya.
2006-11-18 06:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, let it go.. You are only gonna work yourself up and cuse yourself problems by taking it into your own hands.
Goes areound, comes around: If he cheated on you with another, the person he did this with, is more than likely gonna do it to him at a later point, when he least expects it. He got invloved with a person who walked into someone elses relationship, and had no issues causing problems, which means she will do the same thing again, except with him this time. People are creatues of habit, and if she did this to you and him, she will step out on him when something else comes along that has her interest!
2006-11-18 14:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by Kris p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its karma what goes around comes around. She doesnt have to get whats coming to her from you. It will come. Being young and having herpes has to be awful. Now she knew and I am sure that your boyfriend knew she slept around. Even if she didnt have a outbreak she could still pass herpes on. If you and your boyfriend break up again would you date? If you get close to another guy how would you explain to him that you have herpes ? It has to be hard on everyone involved. No she doesnt need to sleep with guys and infect them knowingly you can contact your local health dept and report her.
2006-11-18 14:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well yes what's goes around do come around. she will get what is coming to her. someone need to report her to your local health department. for they can let her give a list of guys she have been having sex with for they can get there self treated. if she know she has herpes and is giving it to others she can be charge for it. good luck
2006-11-18 14:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hers has already come around because someone had to give herpes to her in the first place.
2006-11-18 14:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by casw1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really thing the answer is yes so stay calm and in the future she will have her thing done.
2006-11-18 14:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by chiorean m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it is true it will come back to her mabe not taday but eventualy she will answer to god.Victorio
2006-11-18 14:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by Victorio 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it means that if you do something to someone, eventually it's going to happen to you.
2006-11-18 14:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by Pwnage 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when i mess with my dog she bites me in the butt
2006-11-18 14:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but i dont know
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2006-11-18 14:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋