Was this the right thing to do?

Question

I broke up with my boyfriend because he hasn't called me for two months. On top of that when we first started dating he used make time between his busy schedule to talk to me. Now he just doesn't call me and maybe once in a while I'll recieve on e-mail or one voicemail from him. Then I'll have to wait for another couple of weeks to recieve another one. We do have a long distant relationship, he lives in another state. Give me your spill por favor.

Answer 1

anyone in your situation will obiviously get angry and i wld suggest call him and try to know whats going on his mind.. may be he is really busy with some work, or may be he is not interestred..or anything.... but just tell him frankly thtat you wld like to know why he is not calling and then decide to breakup because you shd not jump into your conclusions .. and if later if you feel it was ur mistake u may feel bad... so first try to call and ask what is the reason???

Answer 2

As difficult as it may have been, I think you did the right thing.
Two months in this age of e-mail, instant messaging, texting, voicemail, cell phones, whatever, is TOO long! There is just no reason (other than being missing, hospitalized in intensive care or posted to some far-off place -- but, hey, even those guys get messages home!) for him not to maintain some sort of regular contact!
My best friend has a TRANS-ATLANTIC relationship. Her guy (who she sees maybe every three-four months) calls her almost every day, sometimes more than once.
You deserve way better than this guy!
Good luck!

Answer 3

2 months? Of course you made the right decision. Long distance requires more effort than a regular relationship, and he's not putting the time in. Good choice.

Answer 4

you broke up with him right?
well then you have already done the right thing...don't worry about it...if he loved you, he would try to get back with you...has he done that? do you think he will? Most men won't go back to a woman that has broken their heart once already so don't think he wants you back...spend some time with yourself and learn how to make yourself happy again...then see about dating in real time with a person that is close by...like maybe in the same town...most of all don't forget to love yourself!

Answer 5

sometimes long distance relationships do work out but it seems to me yours isnt..i say go and find another guy..i think this one isnt right for you because if he was in love with you he would find a way to make your relationship better .. there are many more people waiting for a chance to be with someone go and find them

Answer 6

Yes.

To maintain a long distance relationship, communication is key. Communication wasn't there between you two.

Answer 7

i think you made the right decision for the time being. long distance relationships can be very hard b/c of not seeing each other. but you should still be able to communicate regularly

Answer 8

Yes, I think you did the right thing. I would be in your best interest to find someone a lot closer to have a relationship with.

Answer 9

if he can't, or is not willing to, make time to communicate with you...why wouldn't you break up with him? it almost sounds like he worked hard to win you, and once he had you...eh, game over, stuck you on the shelf like a trophy. I think you made the right choice. get someone who will treat you right and spend time and effort showing you that he cares about you.

Answer 10

Just listen to the lyrics of the song "Believe Me'' By Fort Minor.......