I had one...tell me the best way to deal with that?pls.
2006-11-18 05:58:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't trip Red Bear...I just ended a 2 yr relationship a couple of months ago. So, I know how you feel...it sucks, you're feeling lonely and your friends are looking at you like you are some sick animal...am I on the right track?
I found the best therapy is to make yourself as busy as possible...work some overtime...meet new people...go out with your friends...do you feel me?
The worst thing that you can do is stay at home by yourself and feel sorry about your situation! You will see...TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS...this whole thing is probably just meant to be...
Well, good luck sista! You will be alright!
2006-11-18 06:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by nikc_001 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-05 15:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by Meredith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some great music about breaking up with guys - it gets you engergized and back on your feet. Music is more therapeutic than you may think. iTunes has good mixes and Collections for dealing with it. The very best way besides music is to find another great guy! Don't dwell on the past. Get yourself involved - don't sit around at home. Go running. Go on a date. Do cheeful stuff.
2006-11-18 06:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by skigrrl66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pets, hobbies, work, anything that will involve you and your intellect. Keep your mind pre-occupied with other things! Allow for time to pass as you keep busy. After a few months, the intolerance of the pain of a lost relationship will go away, so you can deal with it.
2006-11-18 06:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may reaLLY Need a good cry fest wrent a sad movie and let the tears comeout and just take a day to wallow then spend time with ur friends . then dont talk to ur ex ne more. hope all works out for u n u have someone new soon. sorry this happened to u. i've been through it before. hope ur heart heals fast
2006-11-18 06:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by lexie_09 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just dont think about and just remember there is always some one better for you! Sorry! :( I just experienced a break up too. Just relax and things will have a turn around for u
2006-11-18 06:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Confronting maybe? But what worked for me is just to forget about it. I simply push him off my mind and do other things like have fun with friends.. It's a mind set. Set your mind to fun and don't give him any more worth then he actually deserves... if you do, you'll always linger on with his memories and turn into a miserable lonely woman. You see you have to get yourself to see every other hot guy out there..
2006-11-18 06:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mara D 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be honest with yourself about the mistakes you made in the relationship. Learn from them. I don't know if you're old enough, but try clubbing or partying. That always helps. But it will take some time.
2006-11-18 06:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-02-06 13:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when you break up with sum 1 it can be really hard but you just have to move on and not let that bring you down where a smile...
2006-11-18 06:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by livy lulu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋