his ex doesnt know were together and im livin in her house wit him as a cousin he spend more time with me but has to pretend everythings alright with them for now we love eachother but im not sure i should trust him when he says he hasnt been messin with her.is it right to be stuck in the middle when i have to pretend eveerything is alright when she is around? hes good to me and treats me with care and respect but keeps me around him all the tike and i have to deal with him playin her to be with me untill we get are own place is it worth it to be depressed and upset at times for love or is it another game to be played?
2006-11-18 05:55:48 · 8 answers · asked by desserae m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're with a man who's keeping you a secret and doesn't have enough balls to leave the girl he's currently with, then that is not the kind of man you want to be with. It's wrong of him to string his girlfriend along and keep you on the side. Chances are, he's never going to leave her, and you will end up in the dust, despite what he says. Although, you may love him, he does not sound like a decent man, and in my opinion, you should get out of that situation and with a more trusting man. I mean, if he will do that to her, do you really want to risk him doing that to you?? It will be hard for a month or two, but in the end, you will be much better off with a man who treats you right and shows you off to the world... not makes you pretend to be his cousin.
2006-11-18 06:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by Person 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should start standing up for yourself! This is not only wrong, but it isnt fair to you or the other woman. He isnt going to break things with her because he's having his cake and eating it too. Seriously, if you want to end the madness then you need to speak up and confess to her who you really are and what happens when she isnt around. Then you need to get rid of him and start finding out who you are, get your self respect up and then find a man who wants to be with you for who you are. Stop being a door mat or people will walk all over you for the rest of your life. you deserve better
2006-11-18 14:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by Danelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GET AWAY FAST,AREN'T YOU SCARED HE MIGHT END UP DOING THE SAME THING TO YOU IN TH NEAR FUTURE.HE DOESN'T EVEN HAVE HIS PRIORITIES STRAIGHT.AND TO DISRESPECT ANOTHER WOMEN LIKE THAT IN HER OWN HOME. YOU SHOULD FEEL SOME TYPE OF WAY.IF THATS WHAT YOU CALL A RELATIONSHIP I CAN ONLY IMAGINE HOW YOUR OTHER RELATIONSHIPS WERE LIKE.YOU NEED TO BE A REAL WOMEN AND GET UP OUT HER HOUSE.YOU'LL FIND OUT SOON WHAT IT FEELS LIKE .THERE IS NO EXCEPTION TO THE RULE. HE IS STILL SCREWING HER ON THE DOWN LOW BELIEVE THAT HE WANTS HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TO.HE PROBABLY HAS NO PLANS OF MOVING OUT SOON.THATS WHAT HE'S TELLING YOU AND TO EVEN BELIEVE A ASSHOLE LIKE THAT IS PLAIN DUMP. GET AWAY BEFORE YOUR FEELINGS ARE HURT. THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH SOME PEOPLE NEED TO TAKE HEED TO IT.I'M SURE HE IS NOT THE ONLY MAN IN THIS WORLD THAT YOU CAN FIND A BETTER RELATIONSHIP WITH .REMOVE YOURSELF FROM THAT SITUATION FAST.
2006-11-18 14:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Catswoman1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely NOT o.k. You are selling yourself short! Find somebody that can give back to you as much as you put in. This guy is TROUBLE. Besides, do you really want someone that can be that cruel to his wife?
2006-11-18 13:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by nursetohelp 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are a hypocrite. You are deceiving this woman as much as he and you are questioning his morals. Your relationship is based on lies and is therefore a joke.
2006-11-18 13:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its alright if u want to be second best he is holding to u just in case things doesnt work out with his ex
2006-11-18 14:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by Rox 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you shoundn' t stay with him and the Bible Say's even when hes no longer with his wife he is still bound to her until one or the other has died
2006-11-18 14:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by Somone 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are a skank for living in the same house, cheating, lying and taking this guy away from his wife. Don't you have any self respect?
This guy is a ho and you're a cheap hore
2006-11-18 14:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋